Post by: Midnight9795 on July 23, 2005, 01:25:29 AM
1. Constructive criticism...even though some may just consider this the internet, a place to 'hang' out at..people are real with real feelings. So take care to what you say to them..
2. No flaming, seriously. I do not tolerate flaming, unless it's just goofing off between agreeing parties. If there are flames, I will thwack you :p
3. Have fun! Relax, get comfty!! Don't be shy!!
4. RESPECT EACH OTHER!!
Also, I've already spoken with Kijuki about this and have his premission ect...ect...! ^^ If the members are all ok with it, maybe this can become a sticky? (I oh so hope this works :p)
Well then, shall we? *pats sofa next to her, takes out her notepad. And grabs the magical happy pills* *.*
Post by: Kijuki_Magazaki on July 23, 2005, 01:31:56 AM
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*tags this thread as: ADMINISTRATOR APPROVED*
No seriously, one flame I amclosing the thread.
Post by: drenrin2120 on July 23, 2005, 01:39:14 AM
jk ::)
But seriously, I just joined another forum and ppl think I'm a noob! What do I do? I'm so depressed.... :( They all hate me! _veryangry_
Post by: Pythis on July 23, 2005, 01:45:48 AM
Post by: DragonBlaze on July 23, 2005, 02:16:51 AM
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But seriously, I just joined another forum and ppl think I'm a noob! What do I do? I'm so depressed.... They all hate me!
Its just nature that you'll be considered a noob when you're new at forums, just give it some time, and they'll accept you :)
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*sigh* Im depressed I cant get my friend to be my girlfriend *sob*
I used to have the same problem, theres nothing wrong with just being friends. You can't force anyone to have feelings for you that they just don't have at the moment. Just keep being friends and maybe the relationship will grow, maybe not, but at least you can always be friends.
I myself have little problems at the moment that I feel like I can share with you guys, which I guess could be considered a problem in itself :(
Post by: tyia on July 23, 2005, 02:23:13 AM
Anyway, I have a crush on a guy(To the point where I can't stop thinking about him). He's a cute guy and I like him.
The problem:
1.) He has a girlfriend(Since second part of the school year.)
2.) His girlfriend is a new friend of my and she doesn't know I like King.
3.)He's racist.
4.)Other people think he's a jerk.
5.)He's 17 while I'm 15.
So, you can see this is a major problem. :(
Edit: I also have a crush on his brother too.
I often see him walking home with his brother and he looks absolutely lonely.(The bus stop is right next to the subway they take.His brother, King walk home with his gf)
Edit: Also Problem #6: I have a shy problem, which makes it difficult to anyone. (Which is why people barely notice I'm there.)That 's also a major problem. I also lose friends that way.
Post by: Legendary Troy on July 23, 2005, 02:27:13 AM
there are more guys out there thats perfect for you, but this guy is a bit too of a risk.
i will understand if u still have feelings for him after all this
Post by: drenrin2120 on July 23, 2005, 02:46:08 AM
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ts just nature that you'll be considered a noob when you're new at forums, just give it some time, and they'll accept you
lmao, sorry, I was jsut being stupid about that. i don't care fi they think I'm a noob. (Bastards... He prolly thinks I'M a noob! I'll show him :mrT: )
Yeah I'm perfectly fine. I'm sane. I'm sane.. :flower: ..
Post by: Osmose on July 23, 2005, 02:51:56 AM
Post by: PyroAlchemist on July 23, 2005, 02:54:35 AM
I still wish to shoot the guy who did it with my paintball gun. Is this a prob?
Post by: Snake Eater on July 23, 2005, 02:57:51 AM
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Okay here is my prob. Some ***** shoot my dog and we had to get it's leg removed. I'm ticked off but I'm starting to be a lil better since it happened two days ago. But
I still wish to shoot the guy who did it with my paintball gun. Is this a prob?
Don't do that, that would get you in trouble. If you know who it was, turn him in to the police and if you already did that, let the legal sysytem take care of it.
Post by: blackskullwarlock on July 23, 2005, 02:59:09 AM
Don't follow that advice or you'll get in trouble...unless of course you don't mind.
Post by: Pythis on July 23, 2005, 03:00:43 AM
Let it go..the animal may be gone but the memories you had with it will be treasured in your mind. Theres no use Your anger cant do anything but make you throw tantrums and theres no need for those. One day we will all be reborn in a new body and if you believe strong enough your dog too. Farewell.
Post by: Rune_of_Punishment on July 23, 2005, 03:09:08 AM
Post by: tyia on July 23, 2005, 03:09:38 AM
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well from ur story there i think this guy is not the one for you because if u try to flirt or takeover it can cause a serious friend problem
there are more guys out there thats perfect for you, but this guy is a bit too of a risk.
i will understand if u still have feelings for him after all this
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tyia: If you have a crush on him AND his brother, then you probably shouldn't go for either - the relationsships that you should persue aren't ones that you just label on guys that you fancy.
You guys are right.
If only I stop thinking and dreaming about King and Lee.
Post by: Rune_of_Punishment on July 23, 2005, 03:23:59 AM
I was caught up in my own girl situation not so long ago. I wasted 3 months of my life pursuing her because she led me on, but behind the scenes she was telling her friends that I was stalking her, leading to misunderstandings. So, yeah, just work on forgetting. It's not too hard if you're willing to do it.
Post by: AsakuraHao2004 on July 23, 2005, 03:46:09 AM
I love my girlfriend, and I only get 3 months with her, then I have to go back home. Thing is, I live far away, and Im pretty sure her parents wont let her go back with me. I can't stay there... that part of the story's complicated, but I just cant. What should I do?
Post by: Trevlac on July 23, 2005, 04:07:09 AM
Oh they'll talk to me all the same (I made everyone laugh in class while we were still in school) but when I try to leave a message on their Xanga like, Hey, where does Rachel go to church? Everyone ignores it. But they seem to notice every other comment I leave. I don't really know her friends well enough to ask their numbers (and since they're all female, they might get the wrong impression.)
That's not the biggest problem. It is very likely that she is interested in me (subtle things in class) but she is a shy girl and as far as I know, has not told any guy (or more than one in her life) that she's attracted to him, probably because of fear of rejection or such. That, or I am just so attracted to her that I am filling my own mind with her thoughts.
Nevertheless, I now face a dilemma; do I come straight out and tell her how I feel (this is disasterous in any situation I have come across before) hoping that my assumptions are correct and do this so that there is not confusion in her as to whether or not I am interested, or try to become her friend instead and just stay friends? I really wouldn't mind either. I just know that girls say they have all the friends they need and so most of the time they reject even a friendship.
But I feel that if I come across as "just wanting to be friends" I'll betray her trust in that my original intentions were for dating. Another option has occurred to me recently, and that is to try and appeal to her by attending her church (the only social place she goes without her friends) and slowly reveal my feelings and who I am to her. Remind her of the things she may like about me: Compassion, wit, randomness, an uncanny ability to know something about everything (or at least pretend I do...), and my overall tendancy to not follow rigid customs or be like every other "typical guy".
This is a relationship that I desperately wish to persue. If anyone has advice *looks at Mid* please feel free to share it. I'll pop a happy pill in the meantime. *pop*
Post by: Osmose on July 23, 2005, 04:25:01 AM
Post by: Midnight9795 on July 23, 2005, 04:53:15 AM
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Tell the truth. It will be better in the long run.
^ What he said, I can't really get to reading everything in the moment since I'm about to go, but I agree with Osmose. But keep in mind, the truth hurts. So if your rejected, move on. If not, good for you! *leaves after stealing a pill < <;; > >;;*
Post by: Robotam on July 23, 2005, 05:23:31 AM
I'll try to help there, Trev. First thing you've fallen for this girl and you sound like you could give up on this any second. Don't!
I'm for digging up the relationship between you to all the way.
The reason her friends doesn't tell you what church is making me wonder, it could be because they don't like you and know she does, it could be because she's in pain somehow and her friends wouldn't reveal her secret place to a random guy like you or it could be because they know she doesn't like you.
...Or it could be any of the other millions of reasons out there, but you're ain't going to think about the reasons, you're gonna to go for it and find out what church she goes to whether they like it or not.
Do you know where she lives, Trevlac? Because if you did it might be closest church from there. Girls don't prefer it far away.
You have to do a little planning here Trev, and the option I say you go for is the church.
1.
Search for her on the yellow pages or something and find out where she lives.
2.
Then you check on the map where the closest church from there is located.
3.
You don't know when she's there, do you? If she's there so often then ask the priest about it, he should know. If he won't tell you'll simply have to wait.
So, Trev.. What do you say? We go with my pimp plan? :smoke:
Post by: Trevlac on July 23, 2005, 06:36:11 AM
Post by: Spike21 on July 23, 2005, 06:37:09 AM
Post by: Legendary Troy on July 23, 2005, 06:55:53 AM
I just got into high school and im planning to play Junior Varsity football, but my mom wont let me instead she signed me up for JROTC (military class) and i never knew untill i picked up my scedule.
I am pissed i went back home and argued with her, then she said "ok go play football, just remember ur dead grandfather always wanted u to join the army and i dont want u to dissapoint him" i said " I have all the time in the world to join the military, why now when im still a kid fighting for a dream of being a NFL player(i know alost impossible)"
then she put a little guilt on me saying "since ur great-great grandfather every generation has joined the army and succeded at it"
So what should i do?
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Post by: Trevlac on July 23, 2005, 07:19:52 AM
Post by: Darkfox on July 23, 2005, 08:17:22 AM
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*sigh* Im depressed I cant get my friend to be my girlfriend *sob*
Trying to make a female friend a girlfriend can cause a devistating effect. Being desperate and so forth is also a sign of weakness, patience is a virtue, same reason you shouldn't fall for every pretty face, don't know what your getting into.
In any case, be ok with being friends, afterall, as a saying goes "Good friends are closer than family." And if you've watched Gungrave it pretty much expresses that quite effectively.
So yeah, give it time. There's another saying but for the life of me I can't remember it right now. Somthing along the lines of "Rush a relationship, destroy a friendship."
Post by: PikaTira on July 23, 2005, 08:21:51 AM
Okay how to start:
Ever since I was a little girl I believed that if I fell in love it would ruin my life, due to the fact that it has happen to most of my family. When I was in my old school, I had no problem keeping this belief. But when I moved, I meet a guy who likes the same things I do and a month ago he asked me to be his girlfriend, so I said yes. But now my family and I are scared that "my family's curse" will happen and everything I worked for will go down the drain. I love him so much but I can never get rid of this belief, it has happen so many times. Was it wrong for me to say yes or am I just going crazy? What should I do?
If you are wondering how many times it has happen? Well, let just say my uncle on my father's side and my aunt on my mom's side are the only ones who did not fall to the curse. (And I have a big family)
Post by: Spike21 on July 23, 2005, 08:30:09 AM
Post by: Spike21 on July 23, 2005, 08:37:42 AM
i cut myself alot any advise how to stop my self
Post by: Robotam on July 23, 2005, 08:42:15 AM
But that shouldn't keep you from living your life.
Post by: PikaTira on July 23, 2005, 08:43:36 AM
I hate this. I hate not being about to solve this. I hate being on the other end of the stick.
Post by: Robotam on July 23, 2005, 08:45:49 AM
Post by: PikaTira on July 23, 2005, 08:55:34 AM
I hope it works. Thank you.
Post by: Red Giant on July 23, 2005, 09:42:47 AM
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srry for double posting but i have a serious issue...
i cut myself alot any advise how to stop my self
One of my closest friends did this too. IShe turned out fine, but you need to realise the reason you're doing it first. Could you share that?
Post by: White Dwarf on July 23, 2005, 10:21:19 AM
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srry for double posting but i have a serious issue...
i cut myself alot any advise how to stop my self
One of my closest friends did this too. IShe turned out fine, but you need to realise the reason you're doing it first. Could you share that?
...i was going to say that...
yeh, to stop you need to know WHy your doing it, adn you need to get rid of the reason for doing it, i know, i yousto cut myself, and have only recently stopped doing so, i managed to stop by telling friends, doing stuff that enjoy you, mostly, it sems, people cut themselfes when they are very bored, never have anything to do, well if that is the case, find something to do, do something to keep your mind of why you cut yourself.
If you can understand that, get a cookie)
Post by: Drace on July 23, 2005, 11:00:11 AM
Post by: White Dwarf on July 23, 2005, 11:59:16 AM
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Still not using dots White, you cheater.
I only like dots when there are 3 of them and nothing else...
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Post by: Midnight9795 on July 23, 2005, 03:16:12 PM
Pythis - Don't rush it, give it some time. Like Darkfox said, it it's meant to be then so be it. If not, at least you have her friendship.
DragonBlaze - ?
Tyia - Thanks ^^ and ya, I dun think you should go for either. Being as you've made friends with the girlfriend, and that could cause serious issues and he's a racist isn't a good idea neither. Being as he's prolly narrowminded (No offense to anyone) And most people who are racist are jerks :p 'most' not 'all' and the age difference doesn't really matter, I mean it's not like he's 40 and your 12, ya know? And if you like his brother as well, that's even worse because you more then likely like 'King?' more then his brother, and that will just go down wrong. Really wrong, and for problem 6...well, most people are shy. Hell, I'M shy as hell. XD But that is something you can overcome in time, so don't worry about that. When your ready, you'll bloom. So er...*pushes Tyia in the ocean* Look for more fish! :D And also, I liked what Sonic said about forgetting..I usual make myself not think of something especially if I know it's gonna depress meh..So swim!! Swim!! lol
PyroAlchemist - Sorry to hear about your dog's leg, mate. But wishing to shoot the guy who did it, is sadly a natural feeling. But! I suggest that your do NOT do it, because...well two wrongs don't make a right, and you may get into some serious troubles. So, get the police involved.
AsakuraHao2004 - Being as we dun really know the whole story, I dunno...BUT if you love her like you say, you will do anything for her. Even if it means dealing with her parents, ya know?
Trevlac - Hmm...as Robotam said, there could be a million reasons as to why her friends wont share with you...possible that they don't 'think' your good enough for her, eh..I dunno us girls are weird XD But anyways, LOL and becareful she may think of you as a stalker if you randomly appear to her hangout spots. *laughs* Trev, if she ignores it then there is a reason. So, instead go find the girl and ask her straight out, because going through friends is the worst, mainly girlfriends because they are the biggest cockblockers ever.
Spike21 - I'm sorry that people can be so evil, but when you don't look a person in the eyes that..gives of the impression of weakness to others, and they take advantage of that. So, try to gain some experience in that, and if they continue to do it. Laugh it off, because believe meh laughter makes the whole world go round (^^) Ah, a cutter...hmm I have two friends at school who cut themselves, after I threatened and harmed them they did stop though.. But, usually people who cut themselves are trying to escape some kind of pain by being forth another kind of pain. As in defeat mental pain, by causing pyshical pain..But as Red, and White said find the source, and pray it stops. Luck to ya :)
Legendary Troy - *shakes her head and laughs* Most parents do that to get their way, and most of us always fall for it even though we know the signs including myself. Well, I agree with you. Your still young, and you should enjoy your life. You have a few years before you should even worry about the army and what not. So go for the football, and have fun. Because you lead your life, and yes she wants the best for you and wants you to have a good life, I kinda think it's too early for that...meh, hope it works out tho
PikaTira - Your prolly going crazy :p I think you should put the belief aside, because if you keep thinking about it. It may just ruin what you have now, if it's meant to be, it's meant to be. Don't give up hope, because you only live once. Many people get hurt in life, but you'll never know until you try, ya know? The heart is a confusing thing, it will always lead you on a wildgoose chase, but in the end it will lead you to your path. I really do hope it works out ^^
And yea, I did copy and paste ya'll names :p
Post by: Kijuki_Magazaki on July 23, 2005, 03:30:38 PM
If this keeps going maybe we can put some more real morals in charas's members XP Mid take care of the thread, you are doing a hell of a job *thumbs up*
Post by: Midnight9795 on July 23, 2005, 03:50:41 PM
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Post by: Drace on July 23, 2005, 04:27:57 PM
Post by: Darkfox on July 23, 2005, 04:51:53 PM
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i say stay with him and give a strong pussh to start your relashonship.
Pushing things is the worst idea. You gotta get to understand this guy first, know what your getting into. Thats one of the key relationship destroyers when later on you find the person has some serious hidden issues or somthing.
Post by: Spike21 on July 23, 2005, 11:02:27 PM
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Spike21 - I'm sorry that people can be so evil, but when you don't look a person in the eyes that..gives of the impression of weakness to others, and they take advantage of that. So, try to gain some experience in that, and if they continue to do it. Laugh it off, because believe meh laughter makes the whole world go round (^^) eh, hope it works out tho
well the problem with that is i hate laughing.
Post by: Kawaai on July 24, 2005, 12:46:17 AM
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when i am sad usualy and some how it is the only way i know to relieve my mental pains is to have physical pains.
quote: Originally posted by Midnight9795
Spike21 - I'm sorry that people can be so evil, but when you don't look a person in the eyes that..gives of the impression of weakness to others, and they take advantage of that. So, try to gain some experience in that, and if they continue to do it. Laugh it off, because believe meh laughter makes the whole world go round (^^) eh, hope it works out tho
well the problem with that is i hate laughing.
Wow... hmm, so what is it that you like doing? Try doing anything that could block your mind off the mental pain, since psychical pain can sometimes turn into a perverse pleasure, and i'd hate to hear of your death just because someone caused you some stress man. You can't help that your face is scarred; if anything, it means that you are truly definative, and an avid fighter/warrior, if such a thing in this world still exists. If they are ignorant enough to make fun of you man, just stand tall and walk it off. Don't hurt yourself and let them win, thats all the cutting and the isolation is doing. If you hate to laugh, just to nothing; look thru them like the glass figurines that they are and press on bro. If they can't be of any help to you, and only serve themselves by bringing you pain, than you don't need to let them have that pleasure. I don't kno if my thoughts are... clear, so if you want to chat, my msn is- neriedmessenger@hotmail.com... take care of yourself.
Post by: Weregnome on July 24, 2005, 12:46:43 AM
Ok a few weeks ago, probably like 3 weeks or so, my borther did something bad. My dad's trust and respect fell (I'm not gonna say what it was) and they spoke about it and the consequences occured. It should be fine and dandy... yet **** always happens. The prob is my bro is hardly at home always at gf's house or with m8s (he is 16, younger than me. we're on holidays). I've been home most of the holidays cos of my money shortage (I have a job now) but there is quite a bit of tention. Dad feels like Josh is "leaving" and Josh well... he doesn't sepak.
Post by: Trevlac on July 24, 2005, 04:55:57 AM
Post by: Midnight9795 on July 24, 2005, 05:30:05 AM
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YAY! Thank you Mid! You are correct, girlfriends are the biggest cockblockers ever, even moreso than Edward. Don't ask.
Hehehe...doubt I will
and Weregnome, more then likely your bro has to gain your dad's trust back I dunno how tho... It happens, trust me...
Post by: smokey_locs2002 on July 24, 2005, 06:17:22 AM
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I haven't got none since school let out -.-
Erm...you've always got yourself, I guess.... _sweat_
Post by: Darkfox on July 24, 2005, 07:19:03 AM
Again, my sister's dog attacked and has fatally wounded a cat of mine, this time a kitten, I have no other option to put her dog down once and for all. It's drawn blood twice... it's no longer under control, it's turning into a wild animal.
It's right isn't it, to kill it? I don't want to, but nothing is safe until it is put down.
Large dogs, especially large ones related more to wolves once gaining a taste for blood will gain a thirst for living prey, and I'm afraid if I do nothing, my nephew and neice could ne next.
Whats worse, this beast is in a pack, very similar to a wolf pack.
Post by: tyia on July 24, 2005, 10:51:36 AM
-struggle against current, then I realized I can't swim-
Oh yeah, I just remembered that at the end of the school year even his own gf calls him a jerk.
(That and I remember him(King) staring at me and he grabbed his gf and kissing her.
Post by: White Dwarf on July 24, 2005, 10:56:02 AM
I dunno, i would send the dog to a home place instead, try to find someone or a group who CAN control it, but if its around children, dont let it stay there, this is like the case with my aunt and cousins, they got a dog that only "listened" to my aunt and it always tryed to attack the kids and such, so they put it down, its the only safe thing to do, i mean, if a human attemps to kill he'll be locked away, and in some cases, killed. So try to find a home or something to put it, and if you cant, your going to have to put it down.
Also AsakuraHao2004 (copy and paste, copy and paste)
I Kinda know whats going on as i talk to Jenna alot, yeh i dout you'll get her away from her dad easly, and im sure her mum wont be that happy... Still, myself i wouldent try, but im not sure, you might have a much better chance that me, i can tell that her dad wont like you much, and i wouldent like to see you try and fight her dad and brother to get you out the house, ouch, but i would give it a try, maybe her parents will see its what she really wants, and as shes been depressed or down a bit, when you turn up and she goes all happy, they might see that your best for her, so, give it a shot, but give up if it gets out of hand, or you'll never be allowed back to visit her again.
Post by: Darkfox on July 24, 2005, 03:03:10 PM
Edit: Thats exactly what she said minus the asteriks, and thats a sure sign that she, like me if very upset.
Post by: Drace on July 24, 2005, 03:15:27 PM
Post by: smokey_locs2002 on July 24, 2005, 03:53:07 PM
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I haven't got none since school let out -.-
Erm...you've always got yourself, I guess.... _sweat_
I was talking about food (God)
But no...no last problem was an odd one...I was in lve with a gaming chick a serious gaming chick. She would spend 12 hours + on online games, I would call her and she would say "i'm busy" I would go over there and while I'm watching tv she's playing online games... sitting here crying becasue she lost an item it took her months to get or whever reason.. It ws horrid.
Post by: maxine on July 24, 2005, 04:02:36 PM
She wants me.
She is (13)
I want her
She is too young :(
Post by: White Dwarf on July 24, 2005, 04:15:09 PM
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Actually i went very mad when i now met this girl. Ok look, i have talked too a girl through msn and all. Seen pictures of her, so ******* hot.. She lives not far from me, 40 minutes with train.... Then when i finally see her she is very tall and all.. God dude i wanted her right there.. Haha.. Then the problem came... She is 12 years old :|..... I mean if you would see her you would find that totally unbelivable... 12 years old and she looked older than me :S.... Im 16 but she will be 13 years this year. Thats 3 years different... Goddammit.. Anyways we talked and stuuf and now when i am home... What shall i do.. She says she wants too meet me again.. I cant be with a 12 year old girl that is HOT. Ok 13 if you gonna be exact of year counting.. Dude help me :|. What would u do?
She wants me.
She is (13)
I want her
She is too young :(
Think to yourself, 3 years different, say you were 29 and she was 26, it wouldent be bad then, i would say, meet with her and stuff, dont take your relationship to far, just wait till shes older and then see what you want to do then, 3 years aint that much difference as long as your both old enough to understand the desions your making, i bet your parents are 3 or more eyars different, its not uncommen, its only a problem when one is to young to make propper disions without thinking about the concenquesnsces.
Post by: Kijuki_Magazaki on July 24, 2005, 06:35:05 PM
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Actually i went very mad when i now met this girl. Ok look, i have talked too a girl through msn and all. Seen pictures of her, so ******* hot.. She lives not far from me, 40 minutes with train.... Then when i finally see her she is very tall and all.. God dude i wanted her right there.. Haha.. Then the problem came... She is 12 years old :|..... I mean if you would see her you would find that totally unbelivable... 12 years old and she looked older than me :S.... Im 16 but she will be 13 years this year. Thats 3 years different... Goddammit.. Anyways we talked and stuuf and now when i am home... What shall i do.. She says she wants too meet me again.. I cant be with a 12 year old girl that is HOT. Ok 13 if you gonna be exact of year counting.. Dude help me :|. What would u do?
She wants me.
She is (13)
I want her
She is too young :(
Think to yourself, 3 years different, say you were 29 and she was 26, it wouldent be bad then, i would say, meet with her and stuff, dont take your relationship to far, just wait till shes older and then see what you want to do then, 3 years aint that much difference as long as your both old enough to understand the desions your making, i bet your parents are 3 or more eyars different, its not uncommen, its only a problem when one is to young to make propper disions without thinking about the concenquesnsces.
indeed is not a big age difference, however SHE is young hot or not. You should wait until you both mature cuz def. you both will have to wait.
Post by: Midnight9795 on July 24, 2005, 07:43:44 PM
Tyia - You are most welcome, and he possible did that because he probably knows you like him and wanted to make you jealous to cause trouble. Just ignore him, males...are sadly....'weird' XD
SMO - lmao, whatever you did that on purpose admitt it :p and maybe you should find a girl that has time to put you on her clock. O.o;; crying over a lost item is just......insane...o.O;;
Maxine - I think you should wait, just because the young girl is hot means nothing. Your both are still 'young' and well, things happen...ya know?
Post by: Drace on July 24, 2005, 09:42:10 PM
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Post by: smokey_locs2002 on July 25, 2005, 03:05:33 AM
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Originally posted by Midnight9795
SMO - lmao, whatever you did that on purpose admitt it :p and maybe you should find a girl that has time to put you on her clock. O.o;; crying over a lost item is just......insane...o.O;;
Yeah Im done with her...this my new woman lol (basic photoshop stuff)
buut anyways, time wasn't the factor that was needed here -.- what was really needed was me to be more agressive..but yeah I got an better idea and gave up lol.
Post by: Rune_of_Punishment on July 25, 2005, 04:41:44 AM
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Originally posted by maxine
Actually i went very mad when i now met this girl. Ok look, i have talked too a girl through msn and all. Seen pictures of her, so ******* hot.. She lives not far from me, 40 minutes with train.... Then when i finally see her she is very tall and all.. God dude i wanted her right there.. Haha.. Then the problem came... She is 12 years old :|..... I mean if you would see her you would find that totally unbelivable... 12 years old and she looked older than me :S.... Im 16 but she will be 13 years this year. Thats 3 years different... Goddammit.. Anyways we talked and stuuf and now when i am home... What shall i do.. She says she wants too meet me again.. I cant be with a 12 year old girl that is HOT. Ok 13 if you gonna be exact of year counting.. Dude help me :|. What would u do?
She wants me.
She is (13)
I want her
She is too young :(
How superficial... you just want to get with her for her body.
Sorry if I'm wrong, but that's how it sounds. Now for advice, if I can pull any out.
It seems wrong right now because you are still in highschool. When you guys get out of school altogether, then it's not so bad. I would suggest just giving up on this girl if you are physically attracted and nothing else. It will end up as just another superficial relationship and someone's going to be hurt emotinally. So, just think about what's more important in a girl.
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Maxine, you could allways lie about the ages. Or just never tell anyone.
Sorry Drace, but that's the dumbest and most unintelligent thing ever, joke or not. Relationships are about trust.
Post by: Drace on July 25, 2005, 06:24:05 AM
Post by: Kijuki_Magazaki on July 25, 2005, 08:37:43 AM
Post by: carmen on July 25, 2005, 11:32:03 AM
Post by: White Dwarf on July 25, 2005, 11:53:01 AM
Drace, you suck badly.
(Carmen f you really are to good try acting like this guy) XD
Post by: Robotam on July 25, 2005, 12:01:59 PM
Please bring it up here, we might be able to help. :)
Post by: Drace on July 25, 2005, 01:03:49 PM
Post by: andy165175 on July 25, 2005, 04:49:06 PM
ok, I have A Problem. My Step dad, WHo I really love, Has some Serious Anger Problems. He Almost Attacked my mom, So I Plain out CAn't see him. But my life is Miserable without him. And now I am... well... misrable.
Post by: White Dwarf on July 25, 2005, 04:58:51 PM
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Originally posted by andy165175
Too... Serious
ok, I have A Problem. My Step dad, WHo I really love, Has some Serious Anger Problems. He Almost Attacked my mom, So I Plain out CAn't see him. But my life is Miserable without him. And now I am... well... misrable.
wowa.. if he could hurt you, see him threw other people, people who can sontrol him, but DONT let him be neer you when your alown, its to dangerous. just talk to him when people who can control him are around.
Post by: X_marks_the_ed on July 25, 2005, 04:59:27 PM
Post by: White Dwarf on July 25, 2005, 05:05:18 PM
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Originally posted by X_marks_the_ed
Several girls annoy me and ask to be my girlfriend. Yet I'm not ready to take that step yet.
Lucky you, XD, no just say no, make them friends if they really like you, and when you are ready, you tell them, but dont let them hate you. thast just mean. but remember if you dont want a girlfriend, its your choice.
Post by: andy165175 on July 25, 2005, 05:20:10 PM
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Originally posted by White Dwarf
wowa.. if he could hurt you, see him threw other people, people who can sontrol him, but DONT let him be neer you when your alown, its to dangerous. just talk to him when people who can control him are around.[/B]
K. I jus miss him a whole lot, you know?
Post by: Midnight9795 on July 25, 2005, 06:06:12 PM
XMTE(lol) - lol, just say no if your not interested. No need to feel as though you have to.
Post by: Drace on July 25, 2005, 06:42:23 PM
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Originally posted by andy165175
Too... Serious
ok, I have A Problem. My Step dad, WHo I really love, Has some Serious Anger Problems. He Almost Attacked my mom, So I Plain out CAn't see him. But my life is Miserable without him. And now I am... well... misrable.
Couldn't you, him and your mom try to solve it with a phyciatris(sp?)?
Post by: Trevlac on July 25, 2005, 09:59:31 PM
People always abuse for a reason a most of the time it's because their parents were also abusers or because they are alcoholics, and/or substance abusers. I have stopped seeing my dad totally, mostly because now that I'm older, I can have violent thoughts towards him like wanting to kill him and things. Trust me, you don't want to be there.
Post by: Kinslayer on July 25, 2005, 10:08:02 PM
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Post by: FFL2and3rocks on July 27, 2005, 07:04:40 AM
There's a girl I know and I think she likes me. However, I'm not interested in her in that way. I don't want her to think that I like her back; she's a good friend, but I wouldn't want to go out with her, ya know? What should I do, because if I mention it to her then strange things will happen. Can I somehow slowly make her less interested in me, but still keep her as a friend?
Post by: Kawaai on July 27, 2005, 02:21:21 PM
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Originally posted by FFL2and3rocks
I have a small problem.
There's a girl I know and I think she likes me. However, I'm not interested in her in that way. I don't want her to think that I like her back; she's a good friend, but I wouldn't want to go out with her, ya know? What should I do, because if I mention it to her then strange things will happen. Can I somehow slowly make her less interested in me, but still keep her as a friend?
Nope, because then she'll stop liking you as a friend too. Best just to be honest... tell her that you are too good of friends, and that you don't want to risk losing her as one by going into a relationship.
...or you can be blunt, and flat out tell her that you are not interested in her that way. Depending on her sensitivity, either way should work. I'd definately do the former rather than the latter. *gives topic back to Mid*
Post by: AsakuraHao2004 on July 29, 2005, 02:09:42 AM
Post by: drenrin2120 on July 29, 2005, 02:14:25 AM
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Why in god's name was this stickied?
Lmfao XD
I think Asakura has his panties in a bunch. Sorry, can't you help you there, XD.
Post by: Al~Len on July 29, 2005, 04:49:12 AM
If I have a problem, I'd rather resort to a person I actually know well in real life and what not.. but I guess some people seek help in differant ways..
Post by: Midnight9795 on July 29, 2005, 04:00:53 PM
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Originally posted by AsakuraHao2004
Why in god's name was this stickied?
If you don't know the answer to that question, then please..don't bother trying to figure it out..Thank you..
Post by: Weregnome on July 30, 2005, 04:13:01 AM
Post by: X_marks_the_ed on July 30, 2005, 08:58:37 PM
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Originally posted by White Dwarf
quote: Originally posted by X_marks_the_ed
Several girls annoy me and ask to be my girlfriend. Yet I'm not ready to take that step yet.
Lucky you, XD, no just say no, make them friends if they really like you, and when you are ready, you tell them, but dont let them hate you. thast just mean. but remember if you dont want a girlfriend, its your choice.
I contacted my OUIJA board. I told me to follow my gut, but my gut wants a samdwich, so thanks, man!
Post by: drenrin2120 on July 30, 2005, 09:57:07 PM
Figure that one out.
BTW: My mom has said "it's not always easy to do what's right, especially when everyone's going the other way." This proves it.
Post by: Rune_of_Punishment on July 30, 2005, 10:27:03 PM
Post by: GaryCXJk on July 30, 2005, 10:39:22 PM
However, do ask her to do it somewhere far away, about half a mile or so, since pot smell can linger very long, and your mother will find out if you lie. And pot smell can get fairly far.
Post by: drenrin2120 on July 31, 2005, 12:00:47 AM
I'm just gonna take it in strides, the way I always do. thx
Post by: Ace of Spades on July 31, 2005, 12:07:37 AM
I'm sorry, but I just had to scream, be it by typing or yelling. I needed to do both. Some crap is going on in my family and I needed to scream. So if this is considered SPAM, then go ahead and delete this.
Post by: Tomi on July 31, 2005, 01:13:24 AM
Ace: Good scream...
Post by: smokey_locs2002 on July 31, 2005, 01:14:42 AM
Post by: Drace on July 31, 2005, 01:37:39 AM
Post by: Tomi on July 31, 2005, 02:05:47 AM
Buy the manual.
Post by: Rune_of_Punishment on July 31, 2005, 06:16:48 AM
Post by: AsakuraHao2004 on July 31, 2005, 06:18:49 AM
Post by: Darkfox on July 31, 2005, 06:20:26 AM
Idea: Quit chasing.
Post by: Ace of Spades on July 31, 2005, 06:27:34 AM
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Originally posted by AsakuraHao2004
One finger in the right place, and she's yours.
ROFL!
Good luck getting to that one.
Post by: VahnGrave on July 31, 2005, 06:28:50 AM
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Originally posted by AsakuraHao2004
One finger in the right place, and she's yours.
Well, apparently, I put the finger in the right place, because, this chick is head over heels.
Of course... So am I...
Post by: GaryCXJk on July 31, 2005, 01:08:06 PM
So nobody understands me.
Post by: smokey_locs2002 on August 01, 2005, 03:32:43 AM
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Originally posted by GaryCXJk
My life is more like this:
So nobody understands me.
May god help you lol
Post by: GaryCXJk on August 01, 2005, 03:36:54 AM
Post by: Red Giant on August 01, 2005, 08:44:45 AM
And
How do you tell someone you don't love them, and never did?
Post by: Drace on August 01, 2005, 09:07:45 AM
1. The straightforward way. When you two are alone you just throw it up.
2. The 'Secret Admirer(sp?)' way. Write her/him a love letter and give a hint in it. Not a to difficult one.
That's the only ones I can think of now.
Telling someone you don't love them is hard. Cause if you do it wrong then you can destroy your friendship. You have to think to what's the best way to say it to not hurt her/him to much.
Post by: charaman on August 02, 2005, 12:08:27 AM
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Originally posted by Red Giant
How do you tell someone you love them?
And
How do you tell someone you don't love them, and never did?
This is what worked for me:
dont tell them until they really truly trust you and you make them feel the same way. took me 2 months, but the results were good ;-)
wow.. the second is hard... but I would just come out and say it.
Post by: Drace on August 02, 2005, 08:23:32 AM
Post by: Weregnome on August 02, 2005, 09:19:29 AM
Post by: GaryCXJk on August 02, 2005, 01:13:47 PM
I think I really really really like a friend (girl, by the way), but the two problems are that she is a friend, and she has a boyfriend. Since I'm a man of honor, I won't try to seperate them, but because she's also my friend I don't want to tell her because I don't want to lose her either way. And I like it the way it is.
Post by: Kawaai on August 02, 2005, 03:12:03 PM
Post by: White Dwarf on August 02, 2005, 08:34:56 PM
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Originally posted by Red Giant
How do you tell someone you don't love them, and never did?
problem is, everyone thinks you ARE going out, i mean, even MY mum does. and so it means shes told everyone.
You are so screwed.
Post by: charaman on August 02, 2005, 08:39:43 PM
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Originally posted by Drace
Ah, the famous 'Friend Lover' way. Works good but takes loads of time.
no... more direct than that i mean. like go out with her and stuff... but dont say you love her until you think she does.
Post by: Drace on August 02, 2005, 11:59:00 PM
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Originally posted by charaman
quote: Originally posted by Drace
Ah, the famous 'Friend Lover' way. Works good but takes loads of time.
no... more direct than that i mean. like go out with her and stuff... but dont say you love her until you think she does.
Ah, the famous 'We've gone on dates but does he loves me or not maybe I should tell him to find out I certainly hope so cause I liked the dates and he's really making it good ones what to do what to do' way.
Post by: charaman on August 03, 2005, 05:49:57 PM
Post by: VahnGrave on August 04, 2005, 03:32:43 PM
THREE WEEKS OF GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER.
Post by: charaman on August 04, 2005, 04:22:13 PM
no but seriuosly... just going out and love are two very different things.
Post by: VahnGrave on August 04, 2005, 04:32:36 PM
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Originally posted by charaman
haha i win. 2.
no but seriuosly... just going out and love are two very different things.
That is so true.
With love, you actually feel something.
Going out is just... Going out.
For instance:
All you stupid girls that obsess over orlando bloom and movie stars like that... You don't love them, you just think they're a cute guy that has money.
Believe me, famous people aren't anything special, you just like them for money.
Post by: Drace on August 04, 2005, 05:00:46 PM
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Post by: Kijuki_Magazaki on August 04, 2005, 07:36:28 PM
Post by: Razor on August 04, 2005, 10:29:11 PM
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Originally posted by Kijuki_Magazaki
yeah... you all have problems going off-topic faster than a grape becomes a raisin.
That's not a fast process.
I hate all those "actors" because everything they ever made is a steaming piece of crap. Which will include and will not be limited to their children, if they ever pass on their disgusting genes.
Post by: Midnight9795 on August 05, 2005, 02:56:35 PM
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Originally posted by Kijuki_Magazaki
yeah... you all have problems going off-topic faster than a grape becomes a raisin.
^ What he said is true, now stop talkin about 'hawt' actors and get back on track before I hurt you all! *shakes fist*
Post by: Trevlac on August 06, 2005, 06:21:22 PM
Anyway. My friend in Louisanna...Jessica...okay she's causing me some heavy problems. Firstly, I'll post a picture, I asked permission. She's the lady on the right -- the blonde in the blue dress.
http://www.sitesled.com/members/digitalbomb/jess6.jpg (http://www.sitesled.com/members/digitalbomb/jess6.jpg)
Now I have to say, I'm going to visit her soon, in about 2 months, when I turn 18. She's really excited to see me, and I know why. The second reason is why. She wants to have sex with me. We're really good friends but I told her I don't have sex, 1. I have no sex drive whatsoever, 2. I care for her too much to do something like that to her.
Yes, having sex with her would be, in my opinion, bad. Both of us are virgins, and I could never take her. I just couldn't help her make the dumbest decision of her life like that. She made a promise to God to remain abstinent until marriage, just like I did. I could never aid in the breaking of a promise to God, for someone else and me.
This is a really big problem. She already talked me into letting her sleep in my hotel bed with me but after wholly convincing me nothing would happen....then after I told her I sleep in pajamas, she insista that I wear no shirt...come on, I'm not stupid.
I also flat out, refused to date her because that would 1. ruin our friendship, and 2. she lives too far away right now.
She tells me it would make her happy to have sexual relations, and I want her to be happy, but somewhere inside me it says that it will hurt her and our relationship in the end. Not to mention, I won't be happy at all. I would feel dirty. So am I just being valiant, or stupid?
I really need charas help here.
Post by: Midnight9795 on August 06, 2005, 07:34:52 PM
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Post by: White Dwarf on August 06, 2005, 07:50:32 PM
Post by: Trevlac on August 06, 2005, 08:04:24 PM
On another note, I'd gladly have a relationship with her if I could live in Louisianna or she could live in Oklahoma. I still would insist on no sexual contact, however.
Post by: Drace on August 06, 2005, 09:09:10 PM
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Originally posted by White Dwarf
You shouldent go threw with it, I mean, I wouldent sleep in teh same bed for one thing, but sex with someone you couldent possible have a relationship with, thats just wrong. Talk to her before you get in bed tho, sit down with her and make sure she knows it not going to happen. It might make her happy to have sex with you but it'll make her more unhappy if it means watching you go back home and not having a relationship with her afterwords.
GASP! You said something smart! Celebrating time! (B) :w00t:
Post by: Trevlac on August 06, 2005, 09:10:04 PM
Post by: Darkfox on August 06, 2005, 09:35:33 PM
Your not being stupid, it is my honest opinion that your right, and your decision shows willpower and thats a really good thing, thats true strength.
Post by: Trevlac on August 06, 2005, 10:16:22 PM
Post by: White Dwarf on August 07, 2005, 01:21:00 PM
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Originally posted by Trevlac
Thank you so much DF that mean a lot to me. Yeah, I told you I wasn't crazy, I was just faced with an akward situation: to make love or not to make love.
A hard choice for every man.
Post by: Trevlac on August 07, 2005, 01:23:57 PM
Post by: White Dwarf on August 07, 2005, 03:03:14 PM
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Originally posted by Trevlac
But not the same situation...most guys will not care about making anyone but themselves happy.
Wowa dude!
Thats not true! ...for some...
SOME guys are like that, not most, hopefuly.
I know im not.
Post by: Trevlac on August 07, 2005, 05:34:36 PM
Post by: Shady Ultima on August 07, 2005, 05:58:04 PM
Is intended at me...
haha surprise people :hi: I'm back
Post by: Drace on August 07, 2005, 08:14:00 PM
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Originally posted by Trevlac
Most, White, most.
Indeedy. And most of them are between the 18 and 21 and prey on younger and more fragile and easy girls.
Post by: Trevlac on August 07, 2005, 08:57:35 PM
Post by: Drace on August 07, 2005, 11:23:11 PM
Post by: Midnight9795 on August 08, 2005, 03:50:25 AM
Ok, a quick lession thingie..
There are times when it's always good to care for anothers inner being, but there must be times when you are selfish with your own inner being..~
I just made that up, so some people will understand it and others wont. For those who don't, just think on Trev's recent problem and it should come to you (^^)
Post by: Trevlac on August 08, 2005, 04:48:45 AM
Post by: Drace on August 08, 2005, 02:24:53 PM
Post by: FFL2and3rocks on August 08, 2005, 06:12:38 PM
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What's a martyr?
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Post by: FFL2and3rocks on August 09, 2005, 01:02:46 AM
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Originally posted by Drace
What's melodramatic?
Post by: Spike21 on August 09, 2005, 04:55:06 AM
Post by: FFL2and3rocks on August 09, 2005, 05:17:11 AM
http://www.dictionary.com
Post by: Greeny341 on August 09, 2005, 02:27:09 PM
Maryl is blue.
I like squirtle.
But not as much as you.
Post by: Midnight9795 on August 09, 2005, 02:31:18 PM
Maryl is an arse
I like spam
But I'd perfer if you didn't do it here...
Post by: Drace on August 09, 2005, 04:47:56 PM
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Post by: Midnight9795 on August 09, 2005, 05:44:37 PM
Post by: Kijuki_Magazaki on August 09, 2005, 07:26:41 PM
lol mid, edit the description on the thread so it also says "NO SPAMMING" Xp
Post by: Midnight9795 on August 09, 2005, 07:31:38 PM
Post by: Drace on August 09, 2005, 09:11:14 PM
Post by: Kijuki_Magazaki on August 09, 2005, 10:11:39 PM
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Post by: Trevlac on August 09, 2005, 10:54:40 PM
He goes to charas. I'm sure you all know him, he's Drace.
Post by: Drace on August 09, 2005, 11:41:58 PM
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Originally posted by Trevlac
I have another problem. There's this guy I see every day and he tries to act funny around people. Sometimes he is but he tries way too hard.
He goes to charas. I'm sure you all know him, he's Drace.
. . .
Only one thing to say.
"I want you to have my children."
Post by: White Dwarf on August 10, 2005, 02:13:51 PM
"Drace it's true, and you proved it with that comment."
Well Trev, I just blocked him, normaly works.
Post by: Drace on August 10, 2005, 02:55:32 PM
Post by: Trevlac on August 10, 2005, 03:18:07 PM
Post by: Kinslayer on August 10, 2005, 03:23:18 PM
I often help my friends with their problems, I give good advises (my friends tell me that very often), but when a problem comes to me, I can't deal with it, and that makes me feel frustrated. For example, if my friends have a problem with a girl, I can give them good advise, but I can't even talk with a girl.
Post by: Trevlac on August 10, 2005, 03:24:54 PM
Post by: Midnight9795 on August 10, 2005, 04:20:21 PM
And Drace....I got you... _veryangry_
Post by: Drace on August 10, 2005, 04:34:44 PM
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And Drace....I got you... _veryangry_
I'll go get the big club then so you can beat me up :(
Post by: Kinslayer on August 11, 2005, 02:42:20 PM
Post by: Drighton on August 16, 2005, 04:31:23 PM
Post by: maxine on August 16, 2005, 05:45:15 PM
Him - Hello is this johnny
Me - hello, umm yes
Him - Bring me johnny
Me - this is Johnny
Him - Who is gay?!
Me - I am gay
Him - Are you gay
Me - Yes i am gay
Him - Yeah you are a big gay. You shall watch out with who you are messing with.
Me - Ok
Him - YES..´Your days are counted
Me - Cool
Him - So you are cocky eh?!
Me - I am not cocky
Him - You know what ?! I know where you live, walk out of ur home and your dead, you get it?!?!?
Me - Ok
Him - You know what you deserve?!
Me - Nope
Him - A big thing up your ***
Me - Well excuse me but i said i was gay so i already get big things up my ***
Him - You will die just wait
(Im trying too handle over the phone too my mom while she is playing with headset)
Mom *looks at me*
Me - *waving my hands while i say in the phone* Wait
He - (Couldent hear, just trying too get the phone too her)
Mom - What is it?!
Me - here !
*click*
Mom - what
Me someone was threatening me -_-
Hahahah what a gay.. The thing that scares me is that he got my home number and he the only thing one guy that i suspect it is, only got my first name..... Anyways what do you think?
Post by: charaman on August 16, 2005, 07:14:05 PM
Post by: ~*Sweet Ichifo*~ on August 16, 2005, 07:44:32 PM
Anyway, I have a bit of a problem of my own.
In 4th grade I met a girl. Lets call her..C. C was my best friend up until about 5th grade, then she suddenly changed. She started hanging out with certain people, and she started smoking and becoming quite the bitch.
Now, earlier this year (6th) I made some new friends. C doesnt know I hate her, but I constantly give away hints, but she doesnt get them. She stole my friend Cheyanne, then "took me back". Then one day in March, Cheyanne, Kayla and I planned a sleep-over at Kayla's house. I was delighted and automaticly asked my parents if I could go. The next day, the day of the sleep-over, C found out and freaked out at me. We later on got into a fight, first a verbal fight, but then I grabbed her arms, leaving red marks and shoved her down the hallway. I was so shocked that I did that, I went into the bathroom and cried. Then girls started coming in, and crowding around me, and knowing C had something to do with it. (Note: C and Cheyanne are different people)
Then someone must've told my teacher I had a little "nervous breakdown".
I went in my reading class, and the people were shocked. I had become so...unable to cry it seems, but there I was, walking in the room, screaming my eyes out. My teacher told me to go to the bathroom by myself to calm down, and I did, I dried my eyes and stayed there..
Then about a week or so after that was over, my guilt had started to take over, so I called C and apologized.
...Boy, that sure was a mistake. After that, it was worse than before. She wouldnt leave me alone at all. She then moved in with her real mom in May, but shes gonna be going to my Jr. High.. What can I do to deal with her? If I say I dont want to be friends, she'll get all pissy and spread rumors about me that arent even close to true. Someone HELP!
Post by: Drace on August 16, 2005, 09:10:59 PM
Post by: GaryCXJk on August 16, 2005, 10:57:42 PM
Is it normal to be affraid of grass?
Post by: Darkfox on August 16, 2005, 11:01:17 PM
Post by: Drace on August 16, 2005, 11:35:59 PM
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Originally posted by Darkfox
I dunno, is being afraid of water and zombie cats normal?
Actually.... no. But a little bit of getting-your-***-kicked will fix that.
Post by: Midnight9795 on August 17, 2005, 12:29:30 AM
Ichifo - Gah, I've been there. Trust meh, how did I deal with it..? Well, I actualy lost my cool and crused the person out. But that's not the way. Try sitting her down, and talking to her one on one. Just state the facts, in a nice way. *Even tho, I myself usually go for the mean path* And if she starts rumors about you, SO WHAT. As long as you know it's not true, then it's all good. Don't sink to her level and make up stories neither, cause then it just wouldn't be worth it. <.<;; sometimes people can be just...to needie..ugh, and if she doesn't get it then just ignore her. If your about to lose your cool, then count to ten *that actualy DOES work* and continue about your day like you never noticed she wasn't breathing ^^ Just be honest, no need to be someones friend by pity...
Post by: ~*Sweet Ichifo*~ on August 17, 2005, 09:11:53 AM
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Originally posted by Midnight9795
And if she starts rumors about you, SO WHAT. As long as you know it's not true, then it's all good.
Its not that easy. If the rumors spread too much, I could lose my friends.
And suppose the rumor gets to the teachers (and its something horrible) and they contact my parents about it and then I get in trouble because of something that isnt even true?
Post by: Kijuki_Magazaki on August 18, 2005, 01:55:57 AM
not saying it will work but is something that should maybe be tried.
And teachers by all means cannot be so stupid; if they call a parent because of a rumor they are not supposed to be a teacher. In fact use them to your favor as well!! Tell them the truth, tell them she might be spreading rumors, and that just they shouldn't listen. Dun look down on yourself; you know the truth. you know yourself, something she'll never know nor understand, because regardless that she might do it out of spite, if she spreads rumor is because psychologically she's afraid you will actually stand against her. and you should; counter attack her with the truth and warn your friends that the rumors she might spread are false; know yourself, and know your friends, and know your 'enemies'.
Post by: WarxePB on August 18, 2005, 02:28:18 AM
Charas sucks. It's sucked ever since Raffles and the 5 million n00bs came. What can I do to it that will make it... not suck?
Post by: ~*Sweet Ichifo*~ on August 18, 2005, 02:48:59 AM
Post by: Razor on August 18, 2005, 06:26:07 AM
Post by: maxine on August 18, 2005, 07:28:00 AM
Post by: Razor on August 18, 2005, 07:59:11 AM
Post by: Drace on August 18, 2005, 01:46:45 PM
Post by: Drighton on August 18, 2005, 02:04:12 PM
And Drace, awesome sig. Details?
Post by: Trevlac on August 18, 2005, 02:46:17 PM
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Originally posted by Drace
Made by Trevlac.
;)
Yeah, he is back. IP ban. I think that is the solution for now.
Post by: Kijuki_Magazaki on August 18, 2005, 07:47:20 PM
As to WB, you can by saying those members suck. And as a resolution encourage ppl no become n00bs during n00b apperances.
Post by: SnakeIzeGambit on August 19, 2005, 04:40:19 AM
2. try to have more tolerance (not gonna happen)
3. ban him completely (definately not gonna happen)
4. leave (possibly)
5. smoke ganga and chill out (or just chill out [the best idea IMO])
Post by: Razor on August 19, 2005, 12:00:52 PM
I do not and can not respect anyone who does drugs, or smokes.
(that excludes people who are trying to quit smoking)
Post by: White Dwarf on August 19, 2005, 12:43:43 PM
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Originally posted by Razor
I do not and can not respect anyone who does drugs, or smokes.
How is that a problem?
Post by: Razor on August 19, 2005, 12:48:59 PM
Post by: Trevlac on August 19, 2005, 02:22:53 PM
Post by: Drace on August 19, 2005, 02:33:53 PM
Post by: Spike21 on August 19, 2005, 05:26:05 PM
Post by: SnakeIzeGambit on August 19, 2005, 09:50:04 PM
Post by: Drighton on August 19, 2005, 11:38:16 PM
/vent off
Post by: dragoninja on August 20, 2005, 12:05:19 AM
Post by: ~*Sweet Ichifo*~ on August 20, 2005, 12:40:51 AM
Post by: dragoninja on August 20, 2005, 12:54:59 AM
Or atleast, then that wouldn't be my problem... >.<
Post by: Red Giant on August 21, 2005, 12:47:59 AM
I love them both dearly.
But they hate each other.
It's so stressful to try and be friends with both of them.
Post by: Weregnome on August 21, 2005, 07:55:29 AM
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Originally posted by Trevlac
I am going to say that, while Razor is being harsh, I agree. Really hard to respect someone that doesn't respect themselves. Smoking, getting high, drugs, drunkenness, someone who does these shows no shred of evidence that they respect themselves.
Then obviously your respect for me is less considering I got drunk yesterday. I get drunk not to get drunk, but because I like the drinks and I drink them. Nothing about 'being drunk is cool'. its just they are alcoholis so they effect u.
Post by: Trevlac on August 21, 2005, 09:01:00 AM
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Originally posted by Weregnome
Then obviously your respect for me is less considering I got drunk yesterday. I get drunk not to get drunk, but because I like the drinks and I drink them. Nothing about 'being drunk is cool'. its just they are alcoholis so they effect u.
No, I respect you; you reccommended me for Mod :D
Post by: Razor on August 21, 2005, 09:48:37 AM
I don't respect drunks; people who get drunk as often as possible, spend all their money on alcohol, and do nothing much more than get drunk.
I only respect you less because you recommend him for mod and not me :D
hell, for god's sake, it's Aussie culture to drink! :|
Post by: maxine on August 21, 2005, 09:58:26 AM
Ps. Just look at the drunks who spends all money on alcohol.. Proof enough
Post by: Razor on August 21, 2005, 01:20:08 PM
Drinking = ok
Drinking and spending all your cash constantly on drinking, doing nothing but drinking, drinking your life away = not ok
Post by: maxine on August 21, 2005, 01:30:17 PM
Post by: Drace on August 21, 2005, 01:54:15 PM
Post by: Trevlac on August 21, 2005, 09:51:06 PM
Post by: Razor on August 21, 2005, 10:49:38 PM
Post by: Red Giant on August 22, 2005, 12:47:33 AM
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Originally posted by Drace
I thought it was Germany's culture to drink. Well, at least loads of beer.
No no, man. English. We invented the pub.
Wait.
Is it anyone's culture not to drink?
EDIT: ESKIMO!
Post by: Drace on August 22, 2005, 12:50:53 AM
Post by: White Dwarf on September 04, 2005, 06:15:01 PM
Post by: Drace on September 04, 2005, 07:34:13 PM
Post by: Linkizcool on September 04, 2005, 07:39:59 PM
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Originally posted by Red Giant
quote: Originally posted by Drace
I thought it was Germany's culture to drink. Well, at least loads of beer.
No no, man. English. We invented the pub.
Wait.
Is it anyone's culture not to drink?
EDIT: ESKIMO!
Hey, theyre called Inuit not Eskimo. Eskimo means raw meat eater in their language, ya im Canadian,lol :hi:
And as far as I know they cant grow anything up up there that can get fermented and make alcohcol so I dont think they drink.
Post by: Griff Hyral on September 05, 2005, 06:28:57 PM
Post by: Razor on September 06, 2005, 08:22:20 AM
gimme a break, that was physics from last year.
Post by: WarxePB on September 06, 2005, 09:36:17 AM
Post by: tyia on September 06, 2005, 11:47:37 AM
You remember the first problem I posted?
Well.......
One day, I was in the cafe part of school and I felt someone breathing on my neck and someone pushing me(We was in line).
The person was Lee, King's brother.
o.o What does this mean?
Post by: White Dwarf on September 06, 2005, 11:58:36 AM
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Originally posted by tyia
New problem:
You remember the first problem I posted?
Well.......
One day, I was in the cafe part of school and I felt someone breathing on my neck and someone pushing me(We was in line).
The person was Lee, King's brother.
o.o What does this mean?
EDIT: I remember now, yeh, he probably dident relise it was you and was just hungry, but if he did know it was you i would say continueing on normaly. but if his neer you again, jst relise it more. But dont panic about it.
Post by: tyia on September 06, 2005, 12:17:32 PM
wth
But I am thin and mostly bones.
XD
When I turned around he was looking right at me and kept doing the same thing.
Post by: White Dwarf on September 06, 2005, 12:45:46 PM
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Originally posted by tyia
O.o He want to eat me?!?
wth
But I am thin and mostly bones.
XD
When I turned around he was looking right at me and kept doing the same thing.
Sorry. When you said line I auto assumed you ment the dinner line, in our school thats the only place i ever line up.
Well maybe his just annoyed at you. trying to make you scared.
Post by: Linkizcool on September 09, 2005, 03:06:42 AM
Post by: Kinslayer on September 10, 2005, 02:40:58 PM
Post by: White Dwarf on September 10, 2005, 03:29:19 PM
Post by: dragoninja on September 10, 2005, 03:52:07 PM
A) Ask her why she dislikes you
B) Forget about her, it's not worth the effort
C) Get straight to the point, tell her what you feel about her (there is about a 50-50 chance that it'll change her Ideas about you)
D) Kick the sh!t out of the guy that spread the rumors
I'd go with C... D might make her dislike you more...
Post by: AsakuraHao2004 on September 10, 2005, 06:00:05 PM
I have a girlfriend, but all these girls are still wanting me. Even if I tell them I have one, they don't seem to care. It's not that I want to say no to them, because most of them are ****ing hot, but I already have a girlfriend, as previously stated.
How do I get them to stop?
Post by: charaman on September 10, 2005, 06:22:06 PM
Post by: dragoninja on September 10, 2005, 06:44:18 PM
well, Charamans advice is the best one... (it's the only one aswell) Ignore them.
hmm... maybe you could
A) As Charaman said: Ignore
B) Show them your Girlfriend (Proof is much more effective)
C) Tell them off, meaning that you tell them that you are not interested (not recomended if you actually ARE interested in them, Lies might make it worse)
and there is always the Cruel choice... Sadly :( and that is:
D) break up with your Girlfriend and get together with the one girl you find the most interesting
P.S. I VERY much hope that you do not go with D...
Post by: AsakuraHao2004 on September 10, 2005, 06:51:52 PM
I have been ignoring them, but I simply dont want to tell them I'm not interested. I like a lot of them, but just as friends who I'd do if I werent engaged.
Post by: charaman on September 10, 2005, 07:08:11 PM
Post by: Drace on September 10, 2005, 07:43:44 PM
Post by: Linkizcool on September 11, 2005, 12:10:32 AM
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Originally posted by dragoninja
woo... you have quite a dilema at hands here... I've seen this somewhere before... anyways, if he keeps disliking you you have a few choices to sovle it
A) Ask her why she dislikes you
B) Forget about her, it's not worth the effort
C) Get straight to the point, tell her what you feel about her (there is about a 50-50 chance that it'll change her Ideas about you)
D) Kick the sh!t out of the guy that spread the rumors
I'd go with C... D might make her dislike you more...
Okay I already tried C but I'll try it again
D wouldn't be that bad except I have almost no idea who it is.
When I tried A, she said "Thats not how I feel about you". I know it's an excuse to hide the fact that she almost hates me, as her friends tell me. B MIGHT be the only choice left, because she transferred to another school.
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If she dident stick up for you or believe you, you should find someone else.
Which is what I'm doing right now.
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Well, try going step by step. Did you ask her what was her problem with you? Besides, does she do something that shows you that she doesn't like you?
Yes, I did ask her what was the problem with me and she said "Thats not how I feel about you" and I know thats the half-truth, a few days ago I found out from one of her friend's brothers that she would rather never see me again in her life, but this guy is a fat @sshole and I barely trust him, but this time he might be right, i don't know, all I know is that it's a half truth.
Post by: dragoninja on September 11, 2005, 11:23:26 AM
Post by: ~*Sweet Ichifo*~ on September 11, 2005, 03:41:42 PM
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Originally posted by AsakuraHao2004
I will not go with D. I love this girl very much, and am engaged to her.
Hehe. X3
They'll stop...they WILL..murahaha..
I've got a bit of a prob mehself.
First off, I'd like to clear up that C and I are friends again, thank you very much.
Anyways, theres this kid. His names Charles. He follows me everywhere, and he's always asking me all sorts of questions. And while I'm trying to work, hes always bugging me and/or being really loud. It really pisses me off. I dont know what to do. I tell him to stop, but he just says "No! You cant make me!" and I am NOT the kind of kid to go to a teacher about this. I handle problems myself or with advice from others.
Oh hey, what do you know? Its 9-11. XD
Post by: Linkizcool on September 12, 2005, 03:33:26 AM
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Originally posted by dragoninja
Well, I hope I've been any help for you two (asa and link)
Yes you have. Thank you all who helped me. I'll keep you posted if anything else happens
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Hehe. X3
They'll stop...they WILL..murahaha..
I've got a bit of a prob mehself.
First off, I'd like to clear up that C and I are friends again, thank you very much.
Anyways, theres this kid. His names Charles. He follows me everywhere, and he's always asking me all sorts of questions. And while I'm trying to work, hes always bugging me and/or being really loud. It really pisses me off. I dont know what to do. I tell him to stop, but he just says "No! You cant make me!" and I am NOT the kind of kid to go to a teacher about this. I handle problems myself or with advice from others.
Oh hey, what do you know? Its 9-11. XD
Smack him in the face.
Or if that doesnt work, then take your palm and drive it into his diaphram (soft spot under the middle of the ribs). It hurts like hell and it knoks the wind out of you. Don't do it too hard though, because he might fall on the floor gasping for breath and the teacher might get pissed at you. Do it actually very lightly, though not too lightly. Use it only as a last resort.
Post by: carmen on September 12, 2005, 05:48:16 AM
EDIT: and asaka, engaged? How old are you? Are you even 16 yet? just becuase it isn't marriage, doesn't make it an easy thing. You only engage someone to prepare for marriage. And you have alot more changing and grwoing in your life to do to even fathom what marriage to someone will be like. You won't be who you are now. Even your def of love will change. AND what you love, it's almost a 99.9% chance. shiittt, I'd bet money on it
Post by: dragoninja on September 12, 2005, 06:16:36 AM
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Originally posted by carmen
I'm sure she'll make better friends in juvee then eh? just ignore him, he'll get the message...and if not, tough to be him.
EDIT: and asaka, engaged? How old are you? Are you even 16 yet? just becuase it isn't marriage, doesn't make it an easy thing. You only engage someone to prepare for marriage. And you have alot more changing and grwoing in your life to do to even fathom what marriage to someone will be like. You won't be who you are now. Even your def of love will change. AND what you love, it's almost a 99.9% chance. shiittt, I'd bet money on it
I'm taking that bet XD
Asa don't fail me now, I've put 20$ on your marriage X3 j/k although, it would be fun if I won
as for sweet Ichifo:
A) tell him off, big time
B) Ignore him for evahz (like you haven't tried)
thats all help I've got time with... I'll think over it during school (to make me survive the lessons) er, post ya laterz I guess
Post by: AsakuraHao2004 on September 12, 2005, 07:04:49 PM
You can say what you want. You can make all the assumptions you want based on my age, but that dosent make you right. The truth is, people don't change as drastically as we like to think. And what I love, and who I love is not going to change.
Post by: carmen on September 12, 2005, 07:06:43 PM
Post by: AsakuraHao2004 on September 12, 2005, 07:11:39 PM
Post by: carmen on September 12, 2005, 07:13:47 PM
Post by: White Dwarf on September 12, 2005, 07:27:37 PM
(This is all online)
A bit ago... I was trying to help "Person A" go out with "Person B" I was trying to give him hints and the like, I eventualy got him to give me her msn addy. Bad idea. I talked to her for a while, and then Person A told me not to talk to ehr ever again, and person B told me to not talk to him ever again, turns out they dont like each other too much, i first stopped talkign to person A, and soon stopped talking to person B, I went to person A looking for forgiveness, then i als managed to be friedns with person B as well, But like, recently Person B has dumped her feoncee over me, (ill call him person C) this was horrible, i told her she is way to yound, and completely turned her down. But then Person C came to me for help, he said he found my e-mail when he was going out with Person B, i tryed to help him, Person A told me i should be horrible, i shoud do what he did to him, as person A lose all chance with person B cus she was engaded with person C, i waas lost with what to do, i helped person C anyway, and lost friednship with person B, i have recently becam friends with person B, and i've blocked person C forever, i cant be asked to help him. Person A we are still friends, i think, hope, but there is teantion with person B. I feel horrible for breaking up person B and C, and i feel disloyal for not doing what person A told me to.
Now, all i wanted to do was get tis of my chest, Do you think i ddi the right thing? and what can i do now to help?
Post by: Drace on September 12, 2005, 08:46:30 PM
Post by: White Dwarf on September 12, 2005, 08:48:37 PM
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Originally posted by Drace
Person A. Does his name start with a T and end with an i?
T and i.. I dont think so...
Post by: Drace on September 12, 2005, 08:59:00 PM
Post by: White Dwarf on September 12, 2005, 09:02:02 PM
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Originally posted by Drace
Ok, I won't get involved then.
ti... ti ti ti... Tomi? OH THAT Nah... duude, thaaaaat. Nah, not tomi.
Post by: dragoninja on September 14, 2005, 06:24:18 AM
You did the right thing trying to help them, although, I think it's slightly wrong to block out C, he was afterall B's fiancée. About A, you can't really blame yourself, it's not like you wanted it all to happened, right?
I'll say this though: Trying Is A Job Well-Done
Post by: Linkizcool on September 14, 2005, 11:44:17 PM
Post by: Relentless Soulscar on September 17, 2005, 09:19:10 AM
Person B, if you read this, please stop this, Im sorry!
Post by: dragoninja on September 17, 2005, 10:02:51 AM
It's too late to undo the fact that you told A things about B, thats was just low, but as you meant no harm I guess that eases the fact. You'll have to start from scratch. Get contact with B and try to get him to talk to you, thats a start.
If B now ignores you cause' he thinks he is a Risk to your life, then that makes things more complicated. Maybe you'll have to get contact with B via someone else.
You said you where having Family issues and were Suicidal. We'll leave that behind but it's worth noting.
Could you make the actual problem between you and B abit clearer?
Post by: Robotam on September 17, 2005, 10:23:35 AM
Post by: Relentless Soulscar on September 17, 2005, 10:25:06 AM
Post by: Relentless Soulscar on September 17, 2005, 10:30:48 AM
Post by: dragoninja on September 17, 2005, 10:36:23 AM
Post by: Robotam on September 17, 2005, 10:38:18 AM
Post by: dragoninja on September 17, 2005, 10:39:26 AM
Post by: Hell Angel on September 17, 2005, 10:41:56 AM
Post by: White Dwarf on September 17, 2005, 10:46:16 AM
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Originally posted by Hell Angel
*Coughs* Lier. *Coughs*
And you would know, how? Heehe.
Post by: dragoninja on September 17, 2005, 10:48:42 AM
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Originally posted by White Dwarf
quote: Originally posted by Hell Angel
*Coughs* Lier. *Coughs*
And you would know, how? Heehe.
Thats classified!
Post by: Robotam on September 17, 2005, 11:05:45 AM
Post by: Razor on October 01, 2005, 01:32:56 PM
Post by: Drace on October 01, 2005, 02:32:02 PM
Sadly, Relentless Soulscar has no problems anymore. I think it's for the best that either Robotam or Hell Angel explain it as they knew him better then I did.
Post by: Razor on October 02, 2005, 09:54:06 AM
Post by: Kinslayer on November 01, 2005, 10:21:49 PM
Post by: ~*Sweet Ichifo*~ on November 03, 2005, 01:37:10 AM
The light of my life left me. He made such a difference in my life. He was almost my twin because we had so much in common. He dressed exactly like me, and he looked a lot like me, and I really grew attached to him...
What should I do?! I'm so heartbroken
Post by: Kijuki_Magazaki on November 03, 2005, 01:59:40 AM
But it can be healed, even if it seems impossible... sadly there isnt anything instant u can do about it, but slowly rcover from the blow you just received. Find someone u can talk to, and confide your sorrow. There are still friends out there who do not htink on betraying you. I am sorry for you, so young... you shouldn't have been put thru this yet.
I hope you're able to stableize soon.
Post by: Kinslayer on November 03, 2005, 02:06:45 AM
Post by: Linkizcool on November 04, 2005, 01:41:25 AM
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Originally posted by Kinslayer
Well, at last a problem with a girl. I finally dared to tell the girl I like that I wanted to date her. Of course, she refused, but that's not the problem. The thing is that we were friends, and I don't wanna loose that friendship... I don't think she'll want to watch my face again. What do you guys think that I should do?
Dude, the same thing happened to me just now. If she starts to ignore you, most likely it means shes scared of you. I know the girl I told is scared of me. Im scared of her too. I just realised I was acting the same way to her as she was acting to me. She never acted like she hated me, and I doubt she hates you. Just because you wanted to date her doesnt mean shes gonna hate you. If she has a boyfriend, like the girl I liked, she might get mad for a week or two, but shell get over it.
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I have a problem...
The light of my life left me. He made such a difference in my life. He was almost my twin because we had so much in common. He dressed exactly like me, and he looked a lot like me, and I really grew attached to him...
What should I do?! I'm so heartbroken
I asked that a couple weeks ago and everyone told me not to post this sh!t here. I only wish I knew the answer to that question. Meditate a bit and get your mind off of it. Find someone to talk to over MSN or sumthin.
Post by: Kinslayer on November 07, 2005, 08:05:37 PM
Post by: Linkizcool on November 08, 2005, 11:37:57 PM
Anyway, I also have a problem. Theres a girl whos name I wont say, because she might look at this forum and shell know. She likes me a lot, and I only want to be her friend, which I already am. So she goes and spreads rumours about me, saying that im "obsessed" with her, because I have in my agenda book "3 weeks till (girls name) birthday" and so on. What the heck is she trying to do here?
Post by: Drace on November 09, 2005, 06:09:37 AM
Post by: Linkizcool on November 09, 2005, 06:38:22 AM
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Originally posted by Drace
Sounds to me like she's trying ro ruin your friendship. Or she has a sick sense of humor.
OR shes getting desperate. Now...what the heck do I do? :|
Post by: Drace on November 09, 2005, 12:21:58 PM
Ask her to stop saying those things. If she has a problem with you, try to fix it. If you can't fix it, say: "I'm sorry. But our friendship won't work this way."
Post by: Kinslayer on November 09, 2005, 03:34:10 PM
Post by: Linkizcool on November 10, 2005, 05:38:28 AM
Post by: Barahir on November 11, 2005, 05:53:15 AM
meh.
forget it.
Post by: MrMister on November 11, 2005, 06:03:34 AM