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Off-Topic => All of all! => Topic started by: Arcanagirl on December 20, 2005, 09:34:51 PM

Title: "Baby" Smith Memorial
Post by: Arcanagirl on December 20, 2005, 09:34:51 PM
I am going to post some pictures of the things I had for my baby, and host a little memorial here for it.

"Baby" Smith, died somewhere between Nov - Dec 2005. Its death was founded Dec 18, 2005. The doctors while searching for a heartbeat, noticed that the baby was no longer in my body, and only the remains of the plesenta remained. This is unlike any miscarrage known and very rare, when a baby loses half it's cells and falls out, but the cells that stuck into the uterus formed into nothing, but my body continued to grow the cell until they removed it along with the plecenta.

There is no way to tell when the baby had officially died and dropped out, but it was sometime in Nov - Dec.

This baby would have had a loving home if it survived. Ben and I had everything ready for its arrival. Sadly all that will remain is the memory of "Baby" Smith and the belongings it never had.

I wish I had a chance to hold my baby atleast once, or seen it's face, heard its heart beat.

I would be willing to take all the pain of the world to have my baby still.

I will forever remember this christmas, as the month of my baby.
I now make this my baby's Birthday. Christmas will now be a day I say happy birthday Baby I never knew, but will always remembr in my heart.

The baby things:
http://img336.imageshack.us/img336/6780/img00083qe.th.jpg

http://img186.imageshack.us/img186/3492/img00091su.th.jpg
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Post by: blaze_shinigami on December 20, 2005, 09:39:32 PM
damn... my brother & his girlfriend lost a child before it was born also. I couldn't possibly understand how you feel as the mother, though.
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Post by: Ace of Spades on December 20, 2005, 10:05:32 PM
:( As I said on MSN, I'm really sorry for you. I can't even imagine how bad you must feel, let alone be able to say I know how you feel. Rest in Peace "Baby" Smith. :(
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Post by: Drace on December 20, 2005, 10:06:45 PM
Sorry to hear that. Let's have a minute of silence for the baby that didn't got his/her change to life.
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Post by: charaman on December 20, 2005, 10:09:14 PM
wow... sorry. I can't imagine.
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Post by: Arcanagirl on December 20, 2005, 10:25:51 PM
Ben and I thank everyone who shows their support on this day.

:(
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Post by: Leon_1990 on December 20, 2005, 10:28:11 PM
No-one here can imagine how she must feel right now...
I'm sorry for both you and your baby...rest in peace "baby" Smith
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Post by: MrMister on December 20, 2005, 10:40:40 PM
That's what happened to this one pair of parents I had.
That's why they adopted me :/

Sorry about what happened, I saw an episode of King of Queens about it once. Very sad.

I'm going to write a song about baby smith.
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Post by: Razor on December 20, 2005, 10:47:49 PM
Terribly sorry to hear that. It's just awful.  :(
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Post by: Bluhman on December 20, 2005, 10:51:28 PM
Wow. That's depressing. I feel for you.  :(
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Post by: Ian-TheResourceMaker on December 20, 2005, 10:59:43 PM
I am so sorry jenna i hope that things will get better.
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Post by: FFL2and3rocks on December 20, 2005, 11:13:22 PM
 :( Wow... sorry to hear about that.
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Post by: Grandy on December 20, 2005, 11:16:06 PM
 Thats so sad.... Hope things get better... :(
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Post by: Darkfox on December 20, 2005, 11:32:12 PM
I really had no idea, I really don't have a clue what to say other than sorry...
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Post by: Al~Len on December 20, 2005, 11:35:20 PM
Something similar had happened with my Grandma. She can't even talk about it..


I really am sorry Jenna.
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Post by: Rune_of_Punishment on December 20, 2005, 11:37:05 PM
This is one of those situations where it's really hard to find anything to say. As a non-pregnant man, I feel for the loss of your fetus (techincal term). I know it meant a lot to you, and I'm sure you would've been a great mother. It's not always the end of the road, though. If you wish, you may try again. As depressing as the whole situation is, you have to make the best of it and find happiness, even at a time like this. I hope that the future holds great things for you and I hope God blesses you with another a child, and just hopefully, it will be born and you can be a proud mother.
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Post by: Kijuki_Magazaki on December 21, 2005, 12:16:49 AM
My sympathies Jenna.

And through your emotions you showed you would've been a mother to the child. My respects to you and those who felt the sadness of it.

I hope that even though nothing/one can make up for something/one else, life brings you the oppurtunity to bring a child into the world. If so, remember the love for the one you lost, and added and supply it.

~Mother's love grows by giving.~

My respects.
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Post by: Osmose on December 21, 2005, 12:38:45 AM
 :(
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Post by: shinotebasiiackh on December 21, 2005, 12:48:59 AM
I'm really sorry to hear that. I can't imagine what you must be going though right now.
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Post by: coasterkrazy on December 21, 2005, 01:08:08 AM
I'm very sorry to hear that as well. :(
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Post by: Tomi on December 21, 2005, 02:22:42 AM
 :( I lost a little brother this way, but I have no idea how it would feel as the mother.  Peace out, "Baby" Smith!
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Post by: Arcanagirl on December 21, 2005, 03:11:00 AM
I know it will be hard, doctors say there is a slight chance my uterus wont heal from the surgery and having another baby may not be possible, but I pray that wont be the case.

in 2 weeks I go in for a check up to see if everything is ok.

If all checks out the doctor says in a year or 2 I can try again, but if I happen to get pregnant before that time it might cause damage to me and the baby, so I pray for the best, so one day we can try again.

I am glad everyone posted in memory of our baby. I will always remember this baby, and tell my future kids about their sibling who was lost before its time.

Everyones support means a lot to me, thank you. *Cries*
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Post by: Fortet on December 21, 2005, 03:15:30 AM
.  .  . Wow.  .  . That's just.  .  . Oh my gosh, Arcanagirl.  .  . I'm so sorry.  .  .  :'(
I really hope things get better for you.  .  .
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Post by: Arcanagirl on December 21, 2005, 03:22:09 AM
My mom, she special ordered a custom baby charm necklace, and put the date of my babies departure as it's birth stone. She told me if it was ok with me if she wore it to remember her grand baby. I think I gonna ask my mom to order me one too.

I decided to dedicate my game Lands of Lunori to my baby...
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Post by: MrMister on December 21, 2005, 03:28:10 AM
2 years, that's okay. You're young. Still, it blows.
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Post by: FFL2and3rocks on December 21, 2005, 04:44:32 AM
Hopefully you'll turn out fine. I wish you the best.
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Post by: Rune_of_Punishment on December 21, 2005, 04:52:31 AM
I'll send out prayers for you tonight. It's the least I could do. I hope you can have a child. Many people dream about having kids. I don't want you to lose that hope.
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Post by: Robotam on December 21, 2005, 07:06:17 AM
*lights a candle* I'll say a prayer for both of you.. Even though that's never been my thing.
My sympathies, we will all hope for your better days.
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Post by: Almeidaboo on December 21, 2005, 03:36:04 PM
I´m very sorry for you. My simpathies.
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Post by: Kinslayer on December 21, 2005, 08:38:43 PM
I'll be praying for you, I don't really know what to say...
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Post by: Moosetroop11 on December 21, 2005, 09:04:33 PM
We're all beside you, Jenna.
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Post by: MrMister on December 21, 2005, 09:53:00 PM
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Originally posted by Moosetroop11
We're all beside you, Jenna.


Ummm.. we don't know her.
But... if we did, we'd probably be in the sidal area right about now.
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Post by: RuneBlade on December 21, 2005, 10:35:48 PM
Sorry to hear
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Post by: Neonlare on December 22, 2005, 12:04:38 AM
I feel for you, It must be hard, but there is always hope for the future.

Rest in Peace, Smith.