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Off-Topic => All of all! => Topic started by: Smokey_locs2006 on January 11, 2007, 04:56:53 PM
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What should be done?
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I'd give him candy so he shuts his clapper.
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Yeah yeah, everyone expects this, but punch him in the face.
If he starts crying slap him across the mouth.
Children should not scream, they're annoying enough as is.
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lol, I dunno, they all sound so cruel and unnusual...or just plain stupid.
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Originally posted by MrMister
Yeah yeah, everyone expects this, but punch him in the face.
If he starts crying slap him across the mouth.
Children should not scream, they're annoying enough as is.
That would make him cry more. You want that?
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If you ignore the kid it eventually shuts up. And slowly learns that crying doesn't do any good.
If you just give the kid what it wants, it learns that it can get its own way by crying, so it does it more, and it grows into a grown man who cries when he can't get the photocopier at work to work properly.
Drace, you fail at childcare.
MrMister... no comment.
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I know about taking care of children, and ignoring a child when it cries for nothing is the best of the options, but also talking calmly is another way.
If you yell, the child'll yell more.
If you beat the children up... you're a sick bastard.
If you give the kid what he (or she) wants, then you're just spoiling him/her.
So, the best option is always take things relazed, just plain violence or spoils will solve nothing.
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Ignoring children lets them know they get to act like assholes with no repercussions, and they end up being socially retarded later on.
None of those options are really right. If your kid is crying tell him to stop in a strict way, and give them empty threats like 'no TV for a week'.
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There is a difference between beating a child and disciplining him.
I'll be damned if my kid is gunna act like that. See, my parents hit me. What I learned was When I do *insert bad behavior here*, I get hit. Hit=Pain. SO I dont do it again. It works. Parents are pussies now-a-days.
So your kid is crying for a spoiled brat reason eh?
3 STEPS.
1-Smack him/her.
2-Explain why he/she got smacked.
3-Refer to step 1 if he continues to misbehave.
A child should get hit when he deserves it. Dont give me this hippy bullshit like "A CHILD NEVER DESERVES TO GET HIT." Shutup. This isnt the super nanny or something. Timeout DOES NOT WORK. sure, send him to his room so he can watch TV and play video games. No. Smack his *** so he gets the message that you're not playing around and what he did is NOT ACCEPTABLE. You cant tell me you havent seen a spoiled brat in the mall or something, crying his lungs out because of a power ranger toy he didnt get, and the mother not doing anything about it. You cant tell me that your first thought wasnt "that kid needs an *** wooping." If your first thouht was "that kid needs a time out," you have ALREADY FAILED AS A PARENT.
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Where's the kill opinon?
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Originally Posted by Revolution911
There is a difference between beating a child and disciplining him.
I'll be damned if my kid is gunna act like that. See, my parents hit me. What I learned was When I do *insert bad behavior here*, I get hit. Hit=Pain. SO I dont do it again. It works. Parents are pussies now-a-days.
So your kid is crying for a spoiled brat reason eh?
3 STEPS.
1-Smack him/her.
2-Explain why he/she got smacked.
3-Refer to step 1 if he continues to misbehave.
A child should get hit when he deserves it. Dont give me this hippy ******** like "A CHILD NEVER DESERVES TO GET HIT." Shutup. This isnt the super nanny or something. Timeout DOES NOT WORK. sure, send him to his room so he can watch TV and play video games. No. Smack his *** so he gets the message that you're not playing around and what he did is NOT ACCEPTABLE. You cant tell me you havent seen a spoiled brat in the mall or something, crying his lungs out because of a power ranger toy he didnt get, and the mother not doing anything about it. You cant tell me that your first thought wasnt "that kid needs an *** wooping." If your first thouht was "that kid needs a time out," you have ALREADY FAILED AS A PARENT.
Listen to this guy.
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Absolutely in agreement with Rev. Some places have even made it illegal to smack your children 0_o
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Put the little bastard in time out.
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I'd just put the child outside the mall and hope he walks away, hopfuly getting hit by a car or something. But definatly don't let him back into the "Mall" (Stupid non-English words.)
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uummm, I guess I would..........KICK HIM ACROSS THE PLANET.....ok, back to being serious, if a kid next to me was crying in wall mart, I would stare at him blankly, then walk away and go somewhere else(which is obvious I guess), that, or depending on how the kid cries, laugh. :D
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Because, walking away is directly related to stopping the child's outburst.
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it's kinda a form of ignoring it?
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sure it is, if no one is there, maybe he'll stop
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Thus, if the people, exempting the child, leave, and the mall is devoid of customers, everyone wins.
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Rev is right. The kid starts to be a bitch, smack him. My parents would smack me, and I'll be damned if I wanted that **** again. There's a difference between child abuse and discipline.
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Originally posted by MrMister
Ignoring children lets them know they get to act like assholes with no repercussions, and they end up being socially retarded later on.
None of those options are really right. If your kid is crying tell him to stop in a strict way, and give them empty threats like 'no TV for a week'.
Word I dont ignore child i give them options, all involve pain.
Also hitting, there is no hitting all beat downs, I got it as a child and look at me, I beat anyone (besides females) that gets outta line.
You can only ignore someone so much untill you ether give them what they want or beat them.
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Donīt have kids.
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Yeah, you should give them options.
1. If they don't shut the hell up, they're gonna get tooken out to the car
2. If they don't shut up at the car, smack that *** (No cameras or witness. Also, check the area.)
3. If they don't stop crying when you get home, beat that *** once more.
Also, never apologize to your children. It's a sign of weakness. Just tell them that if it happens again, the same thing will go down.
(Be carful where you hit them. A bag of california oranges don't leave a bruise and tells them who's boss.)
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Originally posted by Almeidaboo
Donīt have kids.
I agree.
Also, Empty threts don't work, because they'll relise there empty. Or just wont care at the time.
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Agreed.
Discipline =/= child abuse.
If they don't get repercussions, they'll think it's fine if they keep doing it, and will continue the selfish attitude of getting whatever they want through their adult life. Neither me nor my brother (26 yrs old, btw) were disciplined. Ever. He still acts like he's two and whines for everything.
I, on the other hand smartened up.
Discipline your kids, or don't have any. -.-;
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Originally posted by White Dwarf
Originally posted by Almeidaboo
Donīt have kids.
I agree.
Also, Empty threts don't work, because they'll relise there empty. Or just wont care at the time.[/B]
What? you homos think we have kids? lol
Some of us maybe, most of them, way too young.
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Oh yeah, I'm teenage parent...
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Originally posted by Darrellito
Oh yeah, I'm teenage parent...
VIRGIN.
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Originally posted by Smokey_locs2006
Originally posted by White Dwarf
Originally posted by Almeidaboo
Donīt have kids.
I agree.
Also, Empty threts don't work, because they'll relise there empty. Or just wont care at the time.[/B]
What? you homos think we have kids? lol
Some of us maybe, most of them, way too young.[/B]
I don't think that, just saying, best option.
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Not everyone gets it White -.-
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Meh....I agree on the spank/hitting thing. A spank every now and then helps to discipline a child. 'Grounding' does nothing, really. I was spanked as a kid.
Still, there's a line between spankings and beatings--a big one. For example, spanking a kid when he crosses the line is okay. Smacking him and yelling when he messes up a fan isn't (happened to me).
In conclusion: spanking. Spare the rod and spoil the child. But you gotta explain to the kid WHY he was disciplined, otherwise it's senseless violence, and that'll make him a bully.
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Originally posted by Meiscool
Originally posted by Darrellito
Oh yeah, I'm teenage parent...
VIRGIN.[/B]
XD
You got me.
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My parents have never used any form of violence on my borthers or me. They used the silent anger treatments. Plus my mum was explainging to me that she used to say to us "Don't you ever get mummy made, you don't want me to get mad'. Apparantly, if she ever got quiet and clenched her fist, we'd behave immediately.
I think I agree with a slap on the hand, and an explained reason as to why the child is in trouble...
Anywho.. I hear about 5 screaming kids a day at work... and I ain't still used to the ****.
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I have two nephews. 1 and 3. But I only see them when I visit them in Texas. I am the youngest of my family (my older brother is 28) I don't know how to handle children because I am the youngest. Personally, I would ignore them. Yelling at them is the worst. It just makes it worse.