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Off-Topic => All of all! => Topic started by: Ace of Spades on October 16, 2004, 01:58:09 AM

Title: I need everyone's prayer (It's over. But she no longer has to feel pain.)
Post by: Ace of Spades on October 16, 2004, 01:58:09 AM

Alright guys, I'm not a religious freak, but I need you guys' prayer right now. As of this moment my grandmother is in intensive care at the hospital and is not doing well at all. Her body is fighting to live, but fighting too hard. Her blood pressure is high, heart rate is high, she is in great pain. My parents are calling up relatives because we think that she might not live much longer. Please, everyone of Charas. We need you to pray for her health. We don't figure she will live, but please pray for her. It is a time of grief for us. The least that we can do is pray. For the rest lies within the hands of God now. I'm sorry if I'm offending anyone in any way, but it's not boding well for my grandma at all. So please, pray for her health and that she may live, and also pray that if she doesn't live she will go to a better place and will be in better hands. Thanks everyone in advance.

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Post by: Rowan on October 16, 2004, 02:10:53 AM

Really? I hope she'll be okay! Oh... Now you got me thinking about my mom again and how she was in intensive care. Sad times.....

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Post by: Ace of Spades on October 16, 2004, 02:12:31 AM

Thank you. I hope she will be okay too.

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Post by: Razor on October 16, 2004, 02:14:19 AM

Jesus, grandmothers are very important!
Hope all things go well. : sympathetic emoticon :

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Post by: Kijuki_Magazaki on October 16, 2004, 02:17:15 AM

Your faith on reliance of others, shall be tested.

I will indeed pray for her health. Just remember, it is God's plan.

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Post by: Darkfox on October 16, 2004, 02:19:54 AM

*Agrees with KM*

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Post by: Ace of Spades on October 16, 2004, 03:14:14 AM

Things aren't looking to good, but thanks guys.

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Post by: SaiKar on October 16, 2004, 03:46:50 AM

I shall pray for the health of your grandmother and the well-being of your family.

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Post by: Ace of Spades on October 16, 2004, 03:54:34 AM

Thank you.

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Post by: Flamer on October 16, 2004, 03:54:42 AM

I really hope she gets better right now its just common for these things to happen so ive just taught myself to deal with this kinda stuff so I just hope she gets better...  ;) im sure everyone in charas hopes your grandmother gets better

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Post by: Snake Eater on October 16, 2004, 04:04:48 AM

I hope she's going to be okay. I lost my grandmother a few years back and it was really sad

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Post by: Ace of Spades on October 16, 2004, 04:22:09 AM

Thanks guys, I appreciate your concern.

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Post by: Flamer on October 16, 2004, 04:28:52 AM

no problem I Know How You Feel..life isnt fair I know but we have to stick out for eachother espeacially with these kinda things

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Post by: MrMister on October 16, 2004, 05:10:51 AM

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Originally posted by Razor
Jesus,

Yes?

Losing a relative is hard... I'm assuming, but I think if she's in pain you shouldn't be wanting her to live.

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Post by: Flamer on October 16, 2004, 05:24:49 AM

ok I think I know what your trying to say but I think You May Have Sayed it the wrong way I think you should've said it in a more comforting  way like He wants her to feel better not to die not yet at least...

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Post by: FFL2and3rocks on October 16, 2004, 06:06:44 AM

I hope she gets well... my grandma almost died from smoking, and so did my mom... I was so damn scared... :eyes:

I hope she comes through.

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Post by: carmen on October 16, 2004, 06:41:24 AM

    I'm really sorry about your Grandmother, but I don't see how posting it on an RPGmaking forum. Also, There maybe users who aren't religious and take offense to these matters. I know how you feel. My father is gone and so is my mother. My grandmother lives in her bed, with me being her only help. I know it's hard coping with things changing and people moving around so fast. You feel as is you're in slow motion, and have to fight to catch up. But you will ^_-, time heals all. Or atleast numbs it to the point where it's not so bad. Your life isn't something that can be explained with a post on a forum. I know. We're always here for support, Just always remember that you're healing can indirectly cause others pain. Life is a delicate thing. Once you learn how to balance it, you'll be alot happier, and so are we.  :D

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Post by: Red Giant on October 16, 2004, 08:39:56 AM

"When I was a baby, I had to be taken out of my mom's stomach specially, the doctor said I liked it so much in there I didn't want to come out.
But now I am out, I never want to go back. I figure heaven is like that. We're afraid to go there, 'cos we've never been there before, but once we are there, we'll understand how beautiful it is."
-- A wise boy. Something for you to think about.

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Post by: X-F3R on October 16, 2004, 01:24:32 PM

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Originally posted by MrMister

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Originally posted by Razor Jesus,

Yes?

Losing a relative is hard... I'm assuming, but I think if she's in pain you shouldn't be wanting her to live.

that "Jesus - Yes?" thing is getting pretty offending. see you guys in Judgement Day :D

anyway.. in this 2 months (September and October), i've lost 4 people in our family (as in whole family, from grandma to sister-in-law). but i ain't gonna start..

i'm also one of those, who are praying for her recovery. ;)

the prayer is a powerful weapon. doubt in it and it shall do the same to you.

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Post by: MrMister on October 16, 2004, 03:46:33 PM

I mean, I want your grandmother to get better, but it sounds like maybe she won't. It's not what you want to hear, but if the only way for her to stop feeling that pain is for her to die, then would you really want her to live?

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Post by: Ace of Spades on October 16, 2004, 04:18:03 PM

That's why I said in the first post to pray that she go to a better place and be in better hands. It's tough that she's suffering and I really think that she doesn't want to live anymore. And if that will stop her suffering then by all means that's what's best for her. My family is under the impression that she isn't going to live much longer. I pretty much know now that she isn't going to live. That's why I asked that.

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Post by: Xen on October 16, 2004, 05:25:05 PM

I pray for you grandmother's health Ace of Spades. I too know what it is like to lose a relative. My grandfather had passed away about a year ago. My grandmother became reduced to a mental state and passed away some months after. But I am happy for them now, my misery set aside, as I know that they are now safe in good hands.

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Post by: Glitch on October 16, 2004, 07:17:54 PM

I'm praying for her two,

and hey, I dont' mean to offend anyone who doesn't believe in the bible,


but it says in the Bible, that when two or more people come into agreement (when two or more people pray for something) than it becomes possible for a miracle to happen, so keep the faith.

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Post by: Kijuki_Magazaki on October 16, 2004, 07:20:21 PM

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I'm praying for her two,

and hey, I dont' mean to offend anyone who doesn't believe in the bible,


but it says in the Bible, that when two or more people come into agreement (when two or more people pray for something) than it becomes possible for a miracle to happen, so keep the faith.

Amen.

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Post by: X-F3R on October 17, 2004, 02:52:53 AM

ditto!

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Post by: oooog on October 17, 2004, 03:21:33 AM

my grandpa nearly died, had he left a few seconds earlier from the house, he wouldve had a heart attack on a plane and been stuck there.... so yeah, best wishes.

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Post by: Ace of Spades on October 17, 2004, 06:02:44 AM

(Yes, I am crying right now) I want to thank everyone for their concern in this and thank for your prayers. I knew this was coming, and that's why I asked that you pray she be in better hands when she passes. My grandmother doesn't have that much longer in this world. She doesn't have much longer to live and my parents don't want me to see her in the condition she's in. She had already said her goodbyes a couple of days ago, but I never got to say mine. I guess I'll just say them in prayer. Thanks for your concern though. It's good to have friends like you guys. Even if I don't personally know you.  :(

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Post by: Ace of Spades on October 17, 2004, 07:59:16 AM

It's over. At around 2:45 a.m. today, my grandmother passed away. I know that it's good that she's in a better place now, but it's hard to cope with the fact that I will never see her again, until I die. (according to faith) I pray that she is in a better place though. She couldn't respond, but my parents said that right before she died, she shead a tear. I pray that she is in Heaven now. Thanks everyone for your concern, but all is but done now. It's depressing, but I'm glad that she no longer has to feel the pain that she did. Thanks again Charas.   :(  but in a way  :)

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Post by: RuneBlade on October 17, 2004, 09:24:46 AM

I know how you feel, and i feel sorry for you, i lost my grandfather around a month ago. RIP Ace of Spades grandma

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Post by: Sarg on October 17, 2004, 10:14:58 AM

My condolences

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Post by: Xen on October 17, 2004, 02:25:00 PM

May your Grandmother's soul rest among the other souls within Heaven...
Try not get too sad about your Grandmother passing away and the fact that you'll never see her again. The importance of your memories of her will remain in your heart always.

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Post by: blaman on October 17, 2004, 03:07:00 PM

I'm very sorry for your lose...
I feel for you...

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Post by: Kijuki_Magazaki on October 17, 2004, 05:31:02 PM

My sympathy to you. Not too long ago I lost my grandfather as well. I know the feeling. Keep your faith straight.

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Post by: MrMister on October 17, 2004, 05:34:31 PM

Well, she's in Heaven now, so you don't have to worry anymore.
Sorry about your grandmother's passing.

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Post by: Osmose on October 17, 2004, 05:37:48 PM

*takes hat off*

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Post by: Red Giant on October 17, 2004, 06:02:35 PM

Be as sad as you want. It is only human to. It's better to let it out than to keep it inside. I can tell you that from experience.

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Post by: Ace of Spades on October 17, 2004, 06:09:31 PM

I appreciate your response guys. It keeps me more calm to know that you care. Thanks.

BTW: lol. Hey Red Giant. You're dead. Maybe you can say hi to her for me. lol.

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Post by: Weregnome on October 18, 2004, 01:36:04 PM

hey sorry man. I wish I could say i know how u feel but I don't.

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Post by: Alex on October 18, 2004, 02:29:38 PM

I'm with you.
I know the feeling, all i can say is she really is in a better place now.

Considering how old i am, i promise i'll say hello to her for you when i'll pass away as well ;)

May God be with you

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Post by: Darkfox on October 18, 2004, 02:49:50 PM

As do I, my sympathy is also to you.

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Post by: Flamer on October 18, 2004, 03:12:48 PM

least shes ina better place now and no longer in pain so im sry shes gone......

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Post by: carmen on October 18, 2004, 07:15:25 PM

 

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I know how you feel. My father is gone and so is my mother. My grandmother lives in her bed, with me being her only help. I know it's hard coping with things changing and people moving around so fast. You feel as is you're in slow motion, and have to fight to catch up. But you will ^_-, time heals all. Or atleast numbs it to the point where it's not so bad. Your life isn't something that can be explained with a post on a forum. I know. We're always here for support, Just always remember that you're healing can indirectly cause others pain. Life is a delicate thing. Once you learn how to balance it, you'll be alot happier, and so are we.  

Good luck