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Off-Topic => All of all! => Topic started by: Fisherson on July 18, 2009, 05:57:33 PM
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Yeah that's right. I've had no luck in real life so I'm going to try online. I've been debating this and I've decided that I'm going to do it. I'm tired of being alone and loveless. I have no love of being a bachelor, I hate it in fact. I was so much happier in high school when I was dating. So can anyone recommend a site or two for me?
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No. :\ And this is just horrible. Everyone knows these things are fake.
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Pff, yeah. I'm still single, mainly because many of the women here are... well... either too old or... druggies.
And I'm too weird, or some crud like that.
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Well dating sites do work sometimes. Both my brother and father met their current girlfriend online.
But of course, it's not always like that, you could end up with a fat psychopathic wemon.
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That's... actually quite likely. There are many of THOSE here... and I think some friend of mine knows a few... O_o
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I'm getting to the same point too, Fisherson. In september I turn 18, and then I'll start checking out sites if I can't find anyone. I have to find a full time job now and hopefully I can find someone soon.
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Peer pressure, eh?
People have tried getting me a GF. But I can't worry about such things, I guess my time management is disorganized and screwed up as it is...
And I'm unlovable I guess.
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It used to be, but now I just sort of want to be with someone because I feel kind of alone. There's strength in numbers and one against the world is not my idea of a good time.
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Hahahaha.. I'm the most lonesome guys on Charas. You can't beat me here. I sit and wait for somebody to come online, something to happen, etc. because it is THAT miserable. Often when I try to strike up conversation though, or get a reaction, it doesn't happen... so I stop trying. I guess a girl won't really do anything to fill such a void, and it'd probably end up in failure for me anyways.
This is not to say I haven't tried, but I tell you what, "better to loved and lost than to never have loved at all" is full of crap.
Edit: Wow, I'm a lot like my persona...
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*hides fact that he's been doing nothing but Charas and Game Maker for the past 14 hours >_>*
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Other than drawing, that's pretty much all I do is be here, check a few sites for updates, and then if I feel motivated, I either sprite, or work on Charas Doom, listen to music, make another character, or just do nothing.
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@Darkfox - My problem lies in the fact I have trouble managing "me time". I get crap from my parents all the time because all I do is stay in my room, watch tv, play games, work on the computer, and then go out with friends (rarely). I feel those are my hobbies, but all I do is get in trouble and it leads to fights with my parents. Now I've got to find a full-time job. This all started because my part time job managers are too lazy to figure things out and give me more hours. I work at a Seafood counter, and I am SUPPOSED to work at the Deli counter but my deli manager thinks i've gone to seafood. She's not that bright. Oh well.
@Fruckert - lol Amen dude. It's been G4 Tech Tv, RM2k3 and Charas for the last 24 hours of my life.
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I wish I got G4 :(
*leaves thread for lack of constructive things to say*
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Hahahaha.. I'm the most lonesome guys on Charas. You can't beat me here. I sit and wait for somebody to come online, something to happen, etc. because it is THAT miserable. Often when I try to strike up conversation though, or get a reaction, it doesn't happen... so I stop trying. I guess a girl won't really do anything to fill such a void, and it'd probably end up in failure for me anyways.
Actually, we're not much different.
Especially for the conversation thing. Anyone who chat/talk with me probably noticed.
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Girlfriends are expensive, and G4 sucks.
After my last girlfriend, I told myself not to look again til i was rich or close to it, or if I really believed she'll be the one. Really tired of all the temporal and fake "I love you"s for the last 4 girlfriends.
Also, I've read that the best ones out there for dating sites are the expensive ones. Go figure.
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*is being happy with his girlfriend of the last two years with which he lives together*
Can't really participate to this conversation, though I do not recommend dating sites. It feels so fake. Just try to find someone who has the same interests as you.
Also, inb4 "there are no nerd girls who are pretty" because mine loves to game, loves anime, gonna do a game development course with me next year and is pretty. They're out there, go get them you lovehungry wolves.
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Really, lot of people at my age doesn't have a girlfriend or boyfriend. They are all too busy studying or working.
And I believe that you will find someone, you might want to find someone with almost- the same interests and hobbies as you. At least find someone who accepts you and what you like to do. And the chance to do that online is probably pretty low. They are probably a bit like yourself but choose not to go online. Because they are girls... and likes videogames and star wars - and stuff.
Try to go to like star wars cons(okay, I have no idea what I'm talking about now) or places where those kind of people meet or hang out. Maybe some videogame tournaments or a pottery class. Or even better: World of Warcraft.
No really, dating site in all their glory - but it will be hard. And don't just sit around and wait for love to find you on the internet. Go outside and find love!
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Actually it's true. You would prolly have a lot more chances going to comic-cons and fan reunions.
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Try to go to like star wars cons(okay, I have no idea what I'm talking about now) or places where those kind of people meet or hang out. Maybe some videogame tournaments or a pottery class. Or even better: World of Warcraft.
No really, dating site in all their glory - but it will be hard. And don't just sit around and wait for love to find you on the internet. Go outside and find love!
Like I said, this.
Try to go to like star wars cons(okay, I have no idea what I'm talking about now)
Not that bad an idea Prpl. Good idea, actually. Do this, go to LAN parties, whatever. Found mine on school though =P
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I HAD a girlfriend... She dumped me like 2 years ago and I'm so sad that I'm still trying to get over it. The way I see it, I'll find someone someday and I'm sure you will too!
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*headdesk*
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Did I really sound that lame?
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No, I'm responding to the topic as a whole.
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lol
www.manhunt.net
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A year ago this girl I knew was almost my girlfriend, I guess. I dunno. She was a short person my age who made me give her back rides, beat up people and run errands for her.
The point is, find a short girl your age, let her boss you around, make sure your single and she'll probably be all yours if you don't move right after. Or... something like that.
Just wait until the right person comes! Or something like that!
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A year ago this girl I knew was almost my girlfriend, I guess. I dunno. She was a short person my age who made me give her back rides, beat up people and run errands for her.
The point is, find a short girl your age, let her boss you around, make sure your single and she'll probably be all yours if you don't move right after. Or... something like that.
Just wait until the right person comes! Or something like that!
almost
Horrid advice.
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Horrid advice.
Hey! I get my advice from the dreams of a woman in a coma being played backwards! I think my advice holds some water!
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Sure is lonely in here.
I'm waiting until university starts. I have stopped caring and am in no hurry.
lol
www.manhunt.net
Somehow I found this a lot funnier than I was expecting to.
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Well dating sites do work sometimes. Both my brother and father met their current girlfriend online.
But of course, it's not always like that, you could end up with a fat psychopathic wemon.
h8 u
I don't really have anything to contribute, as I am of the female persuasion and therefore could get laid with little to no effort.
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I don't really have anything to contribute, as I am of the female persuasion and therefore could get laid with little to no effort.
Damn your gender! What's the secret code?!
*doesn't have anything constructive to say either, and doesn't want to bore everybody with my lack of a love life*
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Damn your gender! What's the secret code?!
An hero and reroll female. Might work, might not work.
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But you'll have to restart from level 0, and levelling is very long.
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Hahahahaha.
You could always tell him your view on dating websites.
A great way to get kidnapped and raped!
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A great way to get kidnapped and raped!
I could do that for you if you want. Wouldn't have to do that through a dating site, we'll just do on Charas.
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h8 u
I don't really have anything to contribute, as I am of the female persuasion and therefore could get laid with little to no effort.
Wow, the only other person I know that ever said that was Meiscool.
I could do that for you if you want. Wouldn't have to do that through a dating site, we'll just do on Charas.
Mid's hoes.
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Mid's hoes.
*drools* Midnight... hmmmm... I'll have sweet dreams tonight.
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...this thread is interesting to say the least...
My opinion: its possible for dating sites to work, but only if the people are truthful, which in most cases does not happen.
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Goddamn, girls are obnoxious psychopaths...
But they're so damn cute.
Seriously, getting a girl is not that hard. You take 'em out to eat, you let them win arguments, you make 'em giggle, you don't act creepy or needy. Nothing too strenuous. The hard part is not killing them when they enter ultra-bitch mode. I don't care, no matter how innocent or sweet a girl is, they all have it in them.
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[...]you don't act creepy or needy.
And this is where I fail.
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Well, seeming needy or easily falling for a girl is often misinterpretted as creepy. I find a lot of girls are afraid of that. You can't lay it on thick, you got work up to that point.
Also, you gotta be okay with yourself. It doesn't matter what you do on your spare time or if you're a nerd or whatever, if you've got confidence and self-esteem, you're golden.
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The hard part is not killing them when they enter ultra-bitch mode. I don't care, no matter how innocent or sweet a girl is, they all have it in them.
Ugh, psycho-mode. It's when they get pissed about the most useless things. I hate it. Makes me want to torture her. Sadly, I left my torture tools at my parents place so I'm forced to tickle her. Sadly², it mostly makes it worse.
Ah well, I like to live dangerous?
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It used to be, but now I just sort of want to be with someone because I feel kind of alone. There's strength in numbers and one against the world is not my idea of a good time.
You gained my respect for that statement. That’s how I feel.
@Darkfox - My problem lies in the fact I have trouble managing "me time". I get crap from my parents all the time because all I do is stay in my room, watch tv, play games, work on the computer, and then go out with friends (rarely).
That so sounds like me that it's scary. I know how DF felt when I said we act alot alike.
Can't really participate to this conversation, though I do not recommend dating sites. It feels so fake. Just try to find someone who has the same interests as you.
Hmm let's see what my interest are:
Watching Sci-Fi,Game Design,Theorems,reading,writing and metal and role playing. How many women can you count on you fingers that you know have the same intrests in real life?
An hero and reroll female. Might work, might not work.
But you'll have to restart from level 0, and levelling is very long.
The very reason I get this joke proves I could never find a girl that would. XD
A great way to get kidnapped and raped!
Huh? Why would I kidnap and rape one of my best friends and the only person besides DF
I can talk to about art and spiriting? That'd be pointless.
Seriously, getting a girl is not that hard. You take 'em out to eat, you let them win arguments, you make 'em giggle, you don't act creepy or needy. Nothing too strenuous. The hard part is not killing them when they enter ultra-bitch mode. I don't care, no matter how innocent or sweet a girl is, they all have it in them.
I can never get to the out-to-eat part. Every woman I talk to is married or has a boyfriend already. Plus I rarely fin a woman with with the shape i like. I like full figured women as opposed to skiny little ones. I don't know why,but all f my best relationships have been with big girls and I've been very happy.
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Watching Sci-Fi,Game Design,Theorems,reading,writing and metal and role playing. How many women can you count on you fingers that you know have the same intrests in real life
...three...
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...three...
More, just forgot how many.
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More, just forgot how many.
Where, how old and are they single?
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Where, how old and are they single?
The Netherlands, all are aged between 18 and 25. Dunno about being single though.
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The Netherlands, all are aged between 18 and 25. Dunno about being single though.
Dang it! Story of my life.
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Dang it! Story of my life.
You got in one little fight and your mum got scared, she said "your gonna live with your aunte and uncle in Bel-Air"?
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You got in one little fight and your mum got scared, she said "your gonna live with your aunte and uncle in Bel-Air"?
Lol No that every woman I look at is unavailable.
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I was close though.
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I was close though.
True. Okay we're going to do a little role play here. Pretend this thread is a dating site and that most of you guys are women (scar thought right?) and you see this ad. Tell me what you honestly think of it.
I'm looking for someone who enjoys talking,laughing and above all else having fun. I prefer bigger women to smaller ones, because I like a full figured woman. I'm a Sci-Fi fan, but I don't mind dating anyone who doesn't like that sort of thing. I enjoy long walks in the woods, watching the sunset and drawing in various forms. I don't mind listing to other problem, and in fact, enjoy it. My best quality is honesty. I try to see the best in people's hearts and minds, even if others don't. I don't follow the crowd, but I'm open to new ideas. I'm easy going and fun to be around,something what of a comedian and joker. That just about describes me.
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Is it really so important that they are big? I mean, you're narrowing down your chances to find someone that way I think. Most female video game players I know are actually quite fit - because they are tomboy-ish.
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Is it really so important that they are big? I mean, you're narrowing down your chances to find someone that way I think. Most female video game players I know are actually quite fit - because they are tomboy-ish.
Well I like pulp women. They turn me on and all my best relationships have been with larger girls. Why is that a problem? I'll bet if I was African American you wouldn't mind.
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Plus I rarely fin a woman with with the shape i like. I like full figured women as opposed to skiny little ones.
Somehow I don't think you'll have any trouble finding full-figured women...well, anywhere.
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Somehow I don't think you'll have any trouble finding full-figured women...well, anywhere.
I see too many of them. I like my girl average, not anorexic thin and not so big I got to buy harpoons.
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ugh. this thread makes me want to shower the gross off of myself.
LIVEJOURNAL HAS ITS OWN WEBSITE NOW
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Stay away from websites that advertise nymphos who wants sex 3 times
a day. There are a couple of well-known dating sites which contain
real, genuine people such as match.com... I can't remember the other one.
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Fish is trying Dating sites??
This is why Lucy is posting threads about us being so pathetic.
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This is why Lucy is posting threads about us being so pathetic.
True.
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Seriously, getting a girl is not that hard. You take 'em out to eat, you let them win arguments, you make 'em giggle, you don't act creepy or needy. Nothing too strenuous. The hard part is not killing them when they enter ultra-bitch mode. I don't care, no matter how innocent or sweet a girl is, they all have it in them.
Man, you're right, I feel going all-out-bitch on you right now!
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In all honesty I didn't know fish was 21.
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offer to slip your red giant into her fisherson
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In all honesty I didn't know fish was 21.
What about me and being 23?
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offer to slip your red giant into her fisherson
I knew you had a red penis.
What about me and being 23?
You're too old, damnit.
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What about me and being 23?
I could tell you were old, I've seen pics.
I just always thought of fishy as 18 or 17
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I could tell you were old, I've seen pics.
I just always thought of fishy as 18 or 17
He has a goatee too. We actually look pretty similar.
Also, we both don't quite act our age. XD
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That is true too X3
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Find sexy singles in your area,
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More likely than not, Fish. You're going to find a Yaoi fangirls more than anything else. They make up like... 95% of the female nerd/gamer/anime-fan internet community! Do you know what you will endure?!
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More likely than not, Fish. You're going to find a Yaoi fangirls more than anything else. They make up like... 95% of the female nerd/gamer/anime-fan internet community! Do you know what you will endure?!
*shudders*
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My girl likes yaoi, I know what you'll endure. A girl who will read a yaoi, gets horny and bones you two times in a row. 95% of the female nerd/gamer/anime-fan internet community are winrar after reading yaoi.
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offer to slip your red giant into her fisherson
Ha ha ha. Is that a Celestial joke, or real advice?
I see too many of them. I like my girl average, not anorexic thin and not so big I got to buy harpoons.
I'm talking about grotesque and fat, you perverts! Lol.
He has a goatee too. We actually look pretty similar.
Also, we both don't quite act our age. XD
Actually I had a full beard in that pic, but the strange thing is i shaved it off and have a goatee now...kind of freaky that you knew that without me showing you.
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My girl likes yaoi, I know what you'll endure. A girl who will read a yaoi, gets horny and bones you two times in a row. 95% of the female nerd/gamer/anime-fan internet community are winrar after reading yaoi.
STOP PLEASE OH GOD TOO MUCH INFORMATION NO NO NO NO NO
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STOP PLEASE OH GOD TOO MUCH INFORMATION NO NO NO NO NO
Everything you hear or see the word THE, you will think of me naked ****ing.
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lol yaoi fangirls. It's like raisins.
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...nasty wrinkly and purple?
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A lot of girls like yaoi, but frankly I don't understand it. Why would I want to look at anime guys kissing (or worse)? Might as well go do it for real. Of course, looking at yaoi's safer than going to a bar and trying to find a guy... but still. It's like a lot of guys' obsession with porn; why would you want to look at sex when you could just go out there and do it? Meh, I guess I just don't understand it.
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why would you want to look at sex when you could just go out there and do it?
I think you're belittling the difference in effort here.
Unless there's a button on this thing for "generate woman that is sexually interested in me."
IS THERE ARE YOU GUYS HOLDING OUT ON ME
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I guess I just don't understand it.
Obviously not.
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A lot of girls like yaoi, but frankly I don't understand it. Why would I want to look at anime guys kissing (or worse)? Might as well go do it for real. Of course, looking at yaoi's safer than going to a bar and trying to find a guy... but still. It's like a lot of guys' obsession with porn; why would you want to look at sex when you could just go out there and do it? Meh, I guess I just don't understand it.
I think part of it is the fact that sex requires some effort and "skill" that she could be judging you on. Masturbating to porn probably isn't as exciting but it doesn't put you on the spot.
And yaoi? The thing with two guys getting it on, other than 1 + 1 = 2, is it's totally nonthreatening, and in addition you don't have to ponder whether any of the guys would give you the time of day. No-possible-win situation, no possibility of any self-esteem wounding rejection.
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...nasty wrinkly and purple?
Talking behind my back again?
And yaoi? The thing with two guys getting it on, other than 1 + 1 = 2, is it's totally nonthreatening, and in addition you don't have to ponder whether any of the guys would give you the time of day. No-possible-win situation, no possibility of any self-esteem wounding rejection.
So it's kinda like "If I see two guys doing it it's cool because I'm a girl. That will never happen to me because I'm a girl and not a boy - doesn't matter if a guy doesn't think I'm sexy enough. He wants other boys after all! Also... It's mighty fine to see Draco Malfoy and Sasuke getting it together - they are both pretty hot."
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Talking behind my back again?
Actually, I seriously did think about making a crack at your mom.
But I didn't because that's Archems job.
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this thread is repulsive
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A lot of girls like yaoi, but frankly I don't understand it. Why would I want to look at anime guys kissing (or worse)? Might as well go do it for real. Of course, looking at yaoi's safer than going to a bar and trying to find a guy... but still. It's like a lot of guys' obsession with porn; why would you want to look at sex when you could just go out there and do it? Meh, I guess I just don't understand it.
That comment in it's whole is pure epic win.
So it's kinda like "If I see two guys doing it it's cool because I'm a girl. That will never happen to me because I'm a girl and not a boy - doesn't matter if a guy doesn't think I'm sexy enough. He wants other boys after all! Also... It's mighty fine to see Draco Malfoy and Sasuke getting it together - they are both pretty hot."
That one is too
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this thread is repulsive
I agree, it's become way worse.
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this thread is repulsive
Indeed, it makes my eyes bleed.
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I met my girl online, not so much through a dating site as a gaming site and have been talking with her for over 4 years now. I've been actually seeing her for over 3, this makes the 3rd summer we have spent together, and we have been engaged for 1 year now. Long distance relationships are really hard but in this case it worked out really well. If you have to date online make sure you are everything you say you are and you can trust whoever it is they say they are.
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I met my girl online, not so much through a dating site as a gaming site and have been talking with her for over 4 years now. I've been actually seeing her for over 3, this makes the 3rd summer we have spent together, and we have been engaged for 1 year now. Long distance relationships are really hard but in this case it worked out really well. If you have to date online make sure you are everything you say you are and you can trust whoever it is they say they are.
Finaly back on topic and good advice. Thanks man. I will.
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WHY ARE YOU SEEKEING DATING ADVICE FROM CHARAS?!? THIS IS NOT LIVEJOURNAL. THESE PEOPLE DONT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT DATING, THEY ARE FICTICIOUS INTERNET PERSONAS. FISH, IF YOU LIKE "PLUMP" GIRLS, GO LOOK FOR ADVICE ON A FAT-GIRL FORUM.
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I don't think he means "fat", or at least, I hope not. O_o
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Why not?
Fat girls need love too!
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I'm talking about grotesque and fat, you perverts! Lol.
He does mean fat. Also, enough fatties outside.
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WAAAAAIT! I think he might have forgot the "not", he does that a LOT.
Better fix that Fish.
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Otherwise, =O
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Also fish, if you want a good girl, you might want to stop carrying lightsabres everywhere you go, they are not as much turn ons for girls as they are geeky guys like us.
On a side and very off topic note, my college has its own official lightsabre club, and these guys really really believe in that stuff.
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(http://img406.imageshack.us/img406/9664/nofatchicks757656.jpg)
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Archem, I'm proud of you for being opposed to the "No Fat Chicks" mantra.
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Yes. That's exactly how I expected that to be interpreted. You're a winner.
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Double negative, =O
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I don't think he means "fat", or at least, I hope not. O_o
I mean"Pleasantly Plump". It's the perfect figure to me.
Also fish, if you want a good girl, you might want to stop carrying lightsabres everywhere you go, they are not as much turn ons for girls as they are geeky guys like us.
On a side and very off topic note, my college has its own official lightsabre club, and these guys really really believe in that stuff.
I leave my Lightsabers at home. Also where is this wondeful college?
WHY ARE YOU SEEKEING DATING ADVICE FROM CHARAS?!? THIS IS NOT LIVEJOURNAL. THESE PEOPLE DONT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT DATING, THEY ARE FICTICIOUS INTERNET PERSONAS. FISH, IF YOU LIKE "PLUMP" GIRLS, GO LOOK FOR ADVICE ON A FAT-GIRL FORUM.
Lol Well said, but I have no idea what livejournal is. Charas is like the only place I go on Internet.
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I leave my Lightsabers at home. Also where is this wondeful college?
Its called Morehead, and its in Kentucky. Theres like 20 guys that go out and dual lightsabres, some special made kind of lightsabre that wont break easy. They are completely into SW, they've got like ranks and good side and bad side. Thier just wierd. Im gonna go out there dressed like bobba fet one day, and paintball the shat out of all of them.
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Lol That would be funny. Okay I have a little update. My mother found a magazine AD that work's like these sites, but it's free, so I'm probably going to go with that. May not work, but eh? Why not try it anyway. you only live once.
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What Lucas is trying to say is exactly that, except the jk.
I mean Fish, come on. It ain't that hard to go outside and find a nice gal. Dating sites, dating ads, they just promise fail.
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This is true... unless you are here, which you are not. Women here are mostly dumbass rednecks, chain smoking raging lunatics, obnoxious, morbidly overweight, too old, druggies, have some weird health problem, etc.
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You have less reason to complain. -_-
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I agree with Drace.
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Look man, if you can use the resources of the internet to help you find a connection with someone that you may never have met otherwise, and end up actually being happy with her, then I'd say that it's worth the shame of having made this thread. So, I'd say that, despite my previous post, you have quite a large sack of balls to try what most seem to think is just plain stoopid. If it works, great.
If not, refer to Drace's post.
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This is true... unless you are here, which you are not. Women here are mostly dumbass rednecks, chain smoking raging lunatics, obnoxious, morbidly overweight, too old, druggies, have some weird health problem, etc.
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You have less reason to complain. -_-
I can vouch for this man, as it is the same where I originally live. One word of advice I can give you for this indevor, make sure on her profile that she DOES NOT SMOKE, I cannot stress this enough.
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I can vouch for this man, as it is the same where I originally live. One word of advice I can give you for this indevor, make sure on her profile that she DOES NOT SMOKE, I cannot stress this enough.
I agree. Smoking is evil!!!!
Or you could love your girl no matter what. My gf smoked in the beginning, she loves me enough to stop so it's win win.
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you could just go out and buy a fat girl some Wendy's Baconators.
Just saying.