~The mad corner~

[charaman]

haha i win. 2.

no but seriuosly... just going out and love are two very different things.

[VahnGrave]

Originally posted by charaman
haha i win. 2.

no but seriuosly... just going out and love are two very different things.

That is so true.

With love, you actually feel something.

Going out is just... Going out.

For instance:

All you stupid girls that obsess over orlando bloom and movie stars like that... You don't love them, you just think they're a cute guy that has money.

Believe me, famous people aren't anything special, you just like them for money.

[Drace]

Ugh, I hate Orlando Bloom.

[charaman]

you're a guy. you have to.

[Drace]

Is it ok as a guy to hate J-Lo, Britney Spears, Hillary Duff and Linsay Lohan. Cause I really HATE them for making bad movies. Ok, Lohan had one watchable one, Mean Girls, but still. I hate her.

[charaman]

oh its perfectly ok. especialy lindsay lohan... shes scary looking now.

[Kijuki_Magazaki]

yeah... you all have problems going off-topic faster than a grape becomes a raisin.

[Razor]

Originally posted by Kijuki_Magazaki
yeah... you all have problems going off-topic faster than a grape becomes a raisin.

That's not a fast process.

I hate all those "actors" because everything they ever made is a steaming piece of crap. Which will include and will not be limited to their children, if they ever pass on their disgusting genes.

[Midnight9795]

Originally posted by Kijuki_Magazaki
yeah... you all have problems going off-topic faster than a grape becomes a raisin.

^ What he said is true, now stop talkin about 'hawt' actors and get back on track before I hurt you all! *shakes fist*

[Trevlac]

*sigh*  I had to give up on Rachel.  Guess there's just no way of finding her.  sure, I know where she lives, but if a guy who doesn't know you very well shows up at your house randomly are you going to be like "Oh, hey Davis!" or SCREAM?

Anyway.  My friend in Louisanna...Jessica...okay she's causing me some heavy problems.  Firstly, I'll post a picture, I asked permission.  She's the lady on the right -- the blonde in the blue dress.

 http://www.sitesled.com/members/digitalbomb/jess6.jpg

Now I have to say, I'm going to visit her soon, in about 2 months, when I turn 18.  She's really excited to see me, and I know why.  The second reason is why.  She wants to have sex with me.  We're really good friends but I told her I don't have sex, 1. I have no sex drive whatsoever, 2. I care for her too much to do something like that to her.

Yes, having sex with her would be, in my opinion, bad.  Both of us are virgins, and I could never take her.  I just couldn't help her make the dumbest decision of her life like that.  She made a promise to God to remain abstinent until marriage, just like I did.  I could never aid in the breaking of a promise to God, for someone else and me.

This is a really big problem.  She already talked me into letting her sleep in my hotel bed with me but after wholly convincing me nothing would happen....then after I told her I sleep in pajamas, she insista that I wear no shirt...come on, I'm not stupid.

I also flat out, refused to date her because that would 1. ruin our friendship, and 2. she lives too far away right now.

She tells me it would make her happy to have sexual relations, and I want her to be happy, but somewhere inside me it says that it will hurt her and our relationship in the end.  Not to mention, I won't be happy at all.  I would feel dirty.  So am I just being valiant, or stupid?

I really need charas help here.

[Midnight9795]

Woah...Trev has morals..? lol, jk :p Well, sorry for the loss and also I don't think you should give into someone just because you want this person to be happy. Don't give into pressure, cause it never works out in the end. If she can't accept that, then maybe you should sit down with her and have a heart to heart talk with her. See where it goes from there.

[Trevlac]

I think I very much like your input there, Mid.  Thank you for your help.  It's what I thought all along.  Looks like Jessi and me have some talking to do.  Gah, I hope I don't hurt her.

[Midnight9795]

Your welcome, and there it's possible that you will hurt her. BUT she will get over it in time. Luck

[White Dwarf]

You shouldent go threw with it, I mean, I wouldent sleep in teh same bed for one thing, but sex with someone you couldent possible have a relationship with, thats just wrong. Talk to her before you get in bed tho, sit down with her and make sure she knows it not going to happen. It might make her happy to have sex with you but it'll make her more unhappy if it means watching you go back home and not having a relationship with her afterwords.

[Trevlac]

Exactly, that's exactly what I had feared.  Not to mention that I have reduced sex down to a mathematical principle that can only, in the end, divide two people by pain, or subtract from the overall trust and other key elements in the relationship.  No matter what way I've looked at it, sex, or even the expectation of sex in a non-committed relationship, ALWAYS brings strife.

On another note, I'd gladly have a relationship with her if I could live in Louisianna or she could live in Oklahoma.  I still would insist on no sexual contact, however.