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Offline mind-master: brain(mmb)

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TROUBLE, SERIOUSLY!! NEED HELP! ( non-rpg related )
« on: September 13, 2005, 08:39:24 PM »
well errr, as yall know i WHAS depressed... WHASWHAS!!!,
and err... i like wrote some goodbye letters, and my...
parents like found them, its all over for me, i dont do things anymore,
and feel like happy, but they found it, and wanna have conv.'s with me about it, im like soooo lost, i keep saying ''im fine'' ''i dont wanna go to a psychiater'' and all, but, they are FORCING me to go there,
im actually doing stuff AGAINST my will now...

i dunno what to do now.. help..
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« Reply #1 on: September 13, 2005, 09:01:35 PM »
Convince the phyciatrist you're normal. That's the only thing I can think of now.
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« Reply #2 on: September 13, 2005, 09:06:04 PM »
Dont go. And if you have to, dont speek to him AT ALL. Go mute for the day. then your parents will have to stop you going as it's costing them to much.
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« Reply #3 on: September 13, 2005, 09:10:39 PM »
haha my parents did the same to me b4. But eventually, like White said, it began to cost them too much (especially since I didn't express much to him).
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« Reply #4 on: September 13, 2005, 09:27:14 PM »
Yeah. Do that if you want your parents to become over-protective and looking weird at you every time you pass by. We all know how White and he did that.
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« Reply #5 on: September 13, 2005, 09:34:17 PM »
Going without wanting won't help, the therapy works when someone really wants to, tell this to your parents.
 Now, why are you so scared, I did therapy myself, and I feel better now, look, they even let you stay with a piece of your brain afterwards *shows a pot with a small piece of brain*Hehehe, who is the brainy, uh, uh? Who is it? Hehehe.
Kidding.
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« Reply #6 on: September 13, 2005, 09:52:07 PM »
K I kind of did the same thing as you, except I didn't convince myself "feel like happy". I did say to my mother that I was fine & all.

Here's my experience, and listen carefully because those who say to go mute on the psy etc, well I did it all as well.

It ended in a suicide attempt.. (guess I wouldn't want to say it.. but this is serious so screw me) a month later after my mother really forced me to go to the psy but I said no.

What happened afterwards? Well I was forced to a psy by the police and I stayed there for 3 days. Here's the important part... I barely talked to the psy, we just discussed if I was fine and how it all happened. However, after I came out of all that, I was happy!(and still am). What they also gave me for 3 days were anti-depressants, Zoloft(sp). How I see it, the anti-depressant "snapped" me out of that circle, it was amazing how negative I was, it's hard to really understand until you're over it. You think you're thinking normally, you really don't listen to others, and everything seems so hard or far away. Btw, I only took the Zolofts for about 3 days, never before or never after.

I'd advise you to try to take anti-depressants for a week, make it a compromise over the psy. It's also hard how they work, but they're fun. See how you feel, either you really mean your words right now.. but there's a chance you don't and they will really change things for you. Going on vacation, or in a different environment isn't a bad idea either. At the end of it, if it really helped you snap out of something bad, you'll really see things in a different light, and be more mature and trully happy.
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« Reply #7 on: September 13, 2005, 10:13:29 PM »
Actually you should go, AND explain to the psy. what's going on... tat simple. it will also teach you a lesson in your life.
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« Reply #8 on: September 13, 2005, 10:26:45 PM »
If that happened to me, I'd chew my parents out like there's no tomarrow.

Don't go, they won't do you any good. Unless you're confused or something and need some help and someone to talk to, it would be pointless to go.
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« Reply #9 on: September 13, 2005, 10:38:15 PM »
To avoid that, and probably make my mind worse in the long run, I cover my misery and depression with comedy, a suprisingly upbeat attitude, and overly dark and dreary statements sugar-coated with a "isn't that great?" connotation. It seems to be working...
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« Reply #10 on: September 13, 2005, 10:45:00 PM »
i was like that this summer, but I'm fine now. No one found out though.
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« Reply #11 on: September 13, 2005, 11:37:59 PM »
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Actually you should go, AND explain to the psy. what's going on... tat simple. it will also teach you a lesson in your life.

Thats what I would do to.  Maybe the DO know what they are talking about...  And if you are fine as you say, the psy will know, and you won't have to go in again.
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« Reply #12 on: September 14, 2005, 12:05:52 AM »
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Actually you should go, AND explain to the psy. what's going on... tat simple. it will also teach you a lesson in your life.


Finally someone spoke seriously...Dude, he wonŽt eat you. HeŽll talk to you. As soon as he recognizes ur over it, heŽll let you go. If he doesnŽt, ****., he went to University for that and heŽll realize somethingŽs still wrong. And heŽll help ya.
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« Reply #13 on: September 14, 2005, 01:36:29 AM »
Despite the belief of many "depressed" adolescents, going to a therapist, no matter how small or big your problems were, or are, is a good thing.

Of course, if Jimmy is depressed because he has a crush on a girl and she doesn't like him, then Jimmy is a dumbass who most likely shops at Hot Topic to be cool. He probably spikes his hair to be "unique", since he has no personality.
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« Reply #14 on: September 14, 2005, 02:28:04 AM »
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Despite the belief of many "depressed" adolescents, going to a therapist, no matter how small or big your problems were, or are, is a good thing.

Of course, if Jimmy is depressed because he has a crush on a girl and she doesn't like him, then Jimmy is a dumbass who most likely shops at Hot Topic to be cool. He probably spikes his hair to be "unique", since he has no personality.


Sounds like you...
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