Saying it...

[Kijuki_Magazaki]

Sometimes the feelings are there, they just dont surface, and if they don't surface.. well they don't. But as it looks you dun really want to have feelings for her, which why they might hide... or do you?  Three different things: Wanting, Needing and Having.

[Revolution911]

I dont find it hard at all. I dont like say it every 5 seconds but I say it when the situation calls for it to my g/f. I dont keep her for status though. I keep her cause I actually have feelings for her. Nope, not ashamed to say it. **** PRIDE!


Dragonblaze, dont lead her on.

[Dragoon de Sol]

Yea.

DragonBlaze, that is not good.
If she finds out you feel like that, chances are she will not even want to be friends. She will feel as if you cannot be trusted.

And I thought about, and I think for people, it is easier to say I love you if:
A. You really do
B. You have been for a while
C. You can say it without thinking much about it, as if it is like brathing while around that person.

[Meiscool-2]

Girls have guys for status, guys can do the same with girls. I personally have no objection to it, but most of the girls I like are band-peoples, so ya, can't really have a status with them 0_o

[DragonBlaze]

Yeah, yeah, I plan to talk to her about it sometime, but its not like its easy to just go and say something like that. The fact that I am hesitant means that I do care for her, just 'love' may be a little to extreme right now.

Anyway, prom is coming up very soon. Since this is going to be our last one in high school, I'm not going to say anything before hand. Seriously, breaking up with someone right before their last prom wouldn't be a good thing to do...

So yeah, a little while after the prom, and after I sort out my feelings a bit more, I'll talk to her.

[Dragoon de Sol]

Who knows?

The prom may change your mind.

[DragonBlaze]

Originally posted by Dragoon de Sol
Who knows?

The prom may change your mind.

Thats a very distinct possibility, which is another reason for me to wait before I say anything.

[WarxePB]

I've never said it to anyone outside my family, but if/when I do, it'll actually mean something. I doubt I'll ever have more than one girlfriend, who will (probably) become my wilfe (unless she dies or something)

[Spike21]

i said it once or twice in my life time but never meant it

its hard to say when you like some one (just as a friend) and everyone hates you

[Snake Eater]

I don't.

[Almeidaboo]

Something blocks you to say it, even when you actually care about the person.

First time I said it to my girlfriend I said it when I couldn´t really think about what I was saying. Somewhat I got outta my head when I was with her, and said stuff without saying...

Time later I realized that anyone, I mean anyone likes to hear it, boy (a friend >.>) or a girl (friend or maybe something more). So, whenever I like someone, even though I don´t love the person in the passion way, I say it, just for the sake of the smile. And they usually say it back!

When you don´t really mean it you think twice before saying it. It happens much in the beggining of relationships, when you´re still figuring out the answer to the "WTF is happening to me" question...But this' not only about "doubt", but also about "caring for what you have and not spoil it".

[Kijuki_Magazaki]

I figured that the most trouble i had saying it once, was because i meant it, not because i didnt.  And it's true: I know of alot of people offline/online that have the hardest time saying it when they mean it, than when they don't. I am  not saying it doesnt work the other way around, but only those who seem to to be looking for the one seem to hesitate a bit more. Sounds weird, but I have across from viewing other people and from myself. It may be just my pov tho.

[Almeidaboo]

Originally posted by Kijuki_Magazaki
I figured that the most trouble i had saying it once, was because i meant it, not because i didnt.  And it's true: I know of alot of people offline/online that have the hardest time saying it when they mean it, than when they don't. I am  not saying it doesnt work the other way around, but only those who seem to to be looking for the one seem to hesitate a bit more. Sounds weird, but I have across from viewing other people and from myself. It may be just my pov tho.

Well, we´re all different right...some may have it hard (geez...) to say for real, and others feel it hard (dude...) in the oposite situation.

That varies as much as whichever people prefer to say: I love you or I hate you. Sadly some like the 2nd one better

[rush_fan]

I find it hard just to have the courage to start the relationship- to ask someone out.  I'm the shortest kid in my highschool- it helps me make tons of friends and because of my height i am somewhat popular- i find it easier to laugh at myself with some friends rather than cry over every stupid short joke.  Problem is, i don't think i'm taken serriously

[Spike21]

Originally posted by Almeidaboo

quote:

Originally posted by Kijuki_Magazaki I figured that the most trouble i had saying it once, was because i meant it, not because i didnt.  And it's true: I know of alot of people offline/online that have the hardest time saying it when they mean it, than when they don't. I am  not saying it doesnt work the other way around, but only those who seem to to be looking for the one seem to hesitate a bit more. Sounds weird, but I have across from viewing other people and from myself. It may be just my pov tho.

Well, we´re all different right...some may have it hard (geez...) to say for real, and others feel it hard (dude...) in the oposite situation.

That varies as much as whichever people prefer to say: I love you or I hate you. Sadly some like the 2nd one better

well it easy to hate those who hate you. But it is annoying hating hating someone who likes you