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Offline Razor

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« Reply #30 on: December 01, 2005, 10:12:48 PM »
What about when that guy your mother has been going out with for the last 8 or so years tries to control everything you do in life? How he's such a work whóre, you can only do whatever you'd like after every job around the house he just keeps spewing out like a bodily function, is done? Most of which you discuss with your friends who claim such jobs are A impossible, B nonexistant, or C something one would only expect a body builder to pull off without injuring themselves. How your mother, despite being the only one you live with who is directly related to you, has little to no control over giving you permission to go to Jeff's house, or Bill's party? How she has to run every little thing to the overlord jackáss, and if one tiny job hasn't been done, it must be done IMMEDIATELY. It can't wait till you return, because GOD FORBID it will still be there for YOU to do when you get back! Hell, it would be a sin, a burning scar against nature should he decide to do it himself! Not to mention it's as if the deepest darkest act of betrayal would be against him, should your mother help you, and not do her long list of given chores! Which, of course, is only half as long as yours.
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« Reply #31 on: December 18, 2005, 10:15:25 PM »
Well, I guess that I would have the best parents here and Archem can vouch for me. My mother, well, she does bother me at times but that is because she is pregnant and bored, so it's understandable. My father, he usually only bugs me when I have to go out and do yardwork and such. I don't really get much chores because my parents use the "Grades First" slogan. As long as I stay out of trouble (I usually do) and keep my grades above 80-ish percent, I'm fine.
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« Reply #32 on: December 18, 2005, 10:21:50 PM »
I got hit by this one foster dad, but only when I did stupid stuff. He always did it because he was concerned about me, not because he was mad at me. The only time he actually hurt me was when I rode by bike through the bay window. He beat the crap out of me for that :D

I never got in a lot of trouble with any of my other parents, they weren't that bad, I was the source of any dysfunction. :/
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« Reply #33 on: December 18, 2005, 11:12:51 PM »
Parents are not there to ruin everything. They are there for protection! Without them, we would screw up almost everything we do and be in deep crap. When you do something wrong, of course they punish you! It's a good way to make sure you don't make that same mistake. Think about it:
You do someting bad.
They punish you.
You start to do it again, but then remember how bad punishment was.
Good idea, no?
I have no problem with my parents. I appreciate what they do for me. I may be mad when I'm in trouble, but I appreciate what they did later. See what I'm going at here?
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« Reply #34 on: December 19, 2005, 06:10:04 AM »
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Originally posted by Fortet
Parents are not there to ruin everything. They are there for protection! Without them, we would screw up almost everything we do and be in deep crap. When you do something wrong, of course they punish you! It's a good way to make sure you don't make that same mistake. Think about it:
You do someting bad.
They punish you.
You start to do it again, but then remember how bad punishment was.
Good idea, no?
I have no problem with my parents. I appreciate what they do for me. I may be mad when I'm in trouble, but I appreciate what they did later. See what I'm going at here?


Without them, we would end up like the people in those 'rebel' movies from the mid-80s to early-90s.
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« Reply #35 on: December 19, 2005, 06:25:19 AM »
Heh......

You have it Good....

Ive Been
A)A Child
B)A parent
C)Homeless

and having seens all 3 of these points of view,

your a dumb teenager, that thinks they have it all figured out....

In 5 years, youre going to wish your parents were still around to punish you for innane mistakes...
heh.....but, thats half the fun of it.....looking back and realizing how stupid you were...

You seem like a relatively smart kid....but you lack severe amounts of life experience......and seem to be in denial over this.

If you were my kid, Id have made you punish yourself. Perhaps that sounds stupid....but then again, if you were my kid, I would be wondering why my son acts so spoiled. meh.....

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« Reply #36 on: December 19, 2005, 06:30:43 AM »
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I got hit by this one foster dad, but only when I did stupid stuff. He always did it because he was concerned about me, not because he was mad at me. The only time he actually hurt me was when I rode by bike through the bay window. He beat the crap out of me for that

I never got in a lot of trouble with any of my other parents, they weren't that bad, I was the source of any dysfunction. :/


You've got a lot of guts, in a good way, that you admit that you were the cause of problems, many would just blame it on their parents for not being there or whatever. I guess I can say the same about myself, my family isn't exactly the richest, dad being a mechanic/technician and mom working at the store. Often problems come from me, I've got disfuctions in the brain, the same thing that makes me so randomly creative is also what makes me lose touch with things and aggrivatable.
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« Reply #37 on: December 19, 2005, 08:37:34 PM »
Yeah. Parents may overreact once in a while, but it's still entirely the kids fault.
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« Reply #38 on: December 19, 2005, 09:28:41 PM »
Dark fox......randomly creative....self destructive....hmm...
*looks back on the RP, and any encounters*

You got the crazies too huh? I got em when I turned 19....well...I was 'diagnosed' anyhow.....that kind of crap can put things in perspective.....

I got hit a few times when I was a Kid....But untill about 50 years ago, that was considered good parenting.....

Kids are sooo frekin spoiled these days...


Xbox360....BAH! Itll be gone when he takes up his crystal meth  addiction. That seems to almost inevetably hit the rich kids....Strangely enough....its the cheapest drug around.

Kids. BAAAH!
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« Reply #39 on: December 19, 2005, 09:35:36 PM »
Nah, I'm usually cool with my parents. My mom has a tendency to do things suddenly which really fucked some things up a while ago, but that's old news.

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Originally posted by FFL2and3rocks
My parents punish me for getting a detention at school.

Yep, I get punished for being punished.


Hahahah!
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« Reply #40 on: December 19, 2005, 10:15:10 PM »
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Originally posted by gemini
your a dumb teenager, that thinks they have it all figured out....

.....looking back and realizing how stupid you were...


lol. I like you.  :bend:
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Offline Kijuki_Magazaki

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« Reply #41 on: December 19, 2005, 11:47:09 PM »
They are my parents. Teh makers of my life o.o I live with it and deal with it.
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« Reply #42 on: December 20, 2005, 01:31:37 AM »
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Originally posted by gemini
Heh......

You have it Good....

Ive Been
A)A Child
B)A parent
C)Homeless

and having seens all 3 of these points of view,

your a dumb teenager, that thinks they have it all figured out....

In 5 years, youre going to wish your parents were still around to punish you for innane mistakes...
heh.....but, thats half the fun of it.....looking back and realizing how stupid you were...

You seem like a relatively smart kid....but you lack severe amounts of life experience......and seem to be in denial over this.

If you were my kid, Id have made you punish yourself. Perhaps that sounds stupid....but then again, if you were my kid, I would be wondering why my son acts so spoiled. meh.....



Eep. All 3, eh? That must kinda' suck...

And I like the idea of making your kids punish themselves. Maybe when I become a parent, I could try that. Sad part being that it's not too far away if you think of how fast life goes.
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« Reply #43 on: December 20, 2005, 03:52:35 AM »
I am still yet to be a parent. But i've seen two side of the coins O>O not the three sides of the triangle.
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