Is cheating so bad?

[Prpl_Mage]

I'm sorry but maybe you should tell B not to fruck with other people if she "loves" A. Because people who love each other don't fruck other people. Unless you've decided that you can - but I doubt they did.

And also, next time tell B that you know what B did and ask B not to do it again instead, Make B realize the flaws in B's own actions. Make B avoid unnecessary frucking with random people in the future. After all, telling A about B only led to conflicts.

[Nandez]

It seems A is more upset that B said she love this other person which B said she really didn't remember ever saying that I don't think she is lieing about that because I know B can sometimes be a horrible person but she mostly honest.

[Cerebus]

She might've been mostly honest, but she cheated on her boyfriend. And is apparently a horrible person some times. She probably lied about that "I don't remember saying I loved him" part.
Somehow, I expected B would be the girl...

[Nandez]

Why did you expect B to be the girl but I guess I would have also.

I don't I think she was being truthful but i'm not sure according to whats going on A is being pretty cruel and thinks B still loves the other guy and always will.

Now i'm wondering can you ever be forgiven after cheating?

[Drakiyth]

Ok say you like someone or loved them and care about them Let us call them B.
Say you don't like who they are with at all let's call them A.

Say you knew B cheated but you care about B and want them to be happy and hate A.

would it still be a good idea to tell A about it or shut up.

Cheating on somebody is considered Treachery which is the 9th circle of hell.  - Dante's Inferno.




treach·er·y
   /ˈtrɛtʃəri/ Show Spelled[trech-uh-ree] Show IPA
–noun,plural-er·ies.
1.
violation of faith; betrayal of trust; treason.
2.
an act of perfidy, faithlessness, or treason.




This should help you answer your question. Also, I will add my 2 cents into this. The best way to go about your situation is patience. If you like a girl who is with a guy and she wants to do something behind his back be a man and tell her you will only do something if she ends it with him first. I'm not religious but I do believe in Karma and I do believe in good and evil. I personally think if you're a coward in life and don't tell the truth and **** men/women behind somebodies back you said you "love" than you have waves of bad **** that is bound to happen to you in this life or the afterlife.

If there is a "HELL" I'm sure a lot of your "PLAYAHS" will be there.

[Nandez]

You do know I wasn't the one who slept with her right?

[SaiKar]

I think I missed the point where Dante's Inferno became an official holy text.

[fruckert]

Sorry Sai, but I'm going to borrow this for a second:

[zuhane]

You don't love your dog as much as you should.

No no no! My dog had already died! I don't want my current dog to die! I'm just being serious. It was one
of the worst experiences of my entire life, comparable to that of losing a pet!

[Drakiyth]

I think I missed the point where Dante's Inferno became an official holy text.

Only way to get a gamer to listen is by making a point with a hell that's in a game duh.  Dante's Inferno is actually pretty spot on with some things about the sins though. Also, use your common sense, broski. You got Treachery which is evil and if hell existed it would probably be in there, yeah.

You should also watch the animation sometime. It's not just a game. It's a story about some really sad stuff and the consequences of your actions.


Don't forget that the bible had a lot of missing passages and King James is just scraps of crap thrown together.  Like I said though, I'm not religious. I just believe in Karma.

[Prpl_Mage]

Only way to get a gamer to listen is by making a point with a hell that's in a game duh.  Dante's Inferno is actually pretty spot on with some things about the sins though. Also, use your common sense, broski. You got Treachery which is evil and if hell existed it would probably be in there, yeah.

You should also watch the animation sometime. It's not just a game. It's a story about some really sad stuff and the consequences of your actions.


Don't forget that the bible had a lot of missing passages and King James is just scraps of crap thrown together.  Like I said though, I'm not religious. I just believe in Karma.

Read the book instead.

[drenrin2120]

My friend's relationships are all kinds of fucked up, I only intervene when one asks me for help or I know concretely that one cheated on the other. And when I know one cheated on the other, I approach the person that did the cheating. I never go and tell the person who got cheated on. That action belongs solely to the person who committed the crime. Because if they don't tell, it's going to come out sooner or later, and if it comes out not by their mouth it's usually a lot uglier.

And drak was just making a point Sai. Albeit, a strange and awkward point; a point nonetheless.

Gem was pretty much spot on, you really don't want to get involved in other peoples business. Even your friends. Because ultimately, for better or for worse, it is THEIR business. Of course, you can't just stand idly by and watch your friends do stupid things that only make everything else suck more and more. So what do we do? We can't get involved, we can't stand by... The only really helpful thing you can do that doesn't hurt anyone's stupid feelings(because I know people are anal all over the place) is try and point them in the right direction. Give them your opinion without declaring it a fact. After that, just hope they make the right decision. The world does have a funny way of working most things out on its own. Sometimes I little nudge is needed, but a great heave can throw everything into disarray.

So, are we done here?

[Nandez]

So, are we done here?

Yeah, just F.U.C.K. people ingeneral.

Final Update: A and B are trying to fix their relationship now and B decided it was best if i vanished and wasn't in either of their lives even after I consoled B all night through this ****.
It is ****ing depressing and whenever something reminds me of B it makes me depressed but while I ****ing hate how things turned out it is almost a relief at the same time.

[Prpl_Mage]

You don't need slutty douche bags.

[Cerebus]

Exactly. They are worthless human beings!