love scars

[ZeroKirbyX]

Originally posted by Desimodontidae
I myself don't believe in marraige... mostly because the ceremonies are religious and governmental. I'm just really dedicated to my girlfriend, it's easy to avoid temptation for her. Of course some people will say that you're not really commited to the person unless you're married to them, which I argue, if anything I think you'd be better off not officially marrying. You wouldnt feel binded by all these outside forces, like faith.

Matter of opinon though, I guess. I dont know if there are any statistics to prove or reject my theory... just seems logical to me.

I agree. In the original days of the concept of marriage, it showed commitment and loyalty to each other, and was seen this way up to the early 1900's. But today with like 7 divorces every minute, the concept of marriage has become a joke, holding no value as it used to.

[Meiscool-2]

Originally posted by charaman

quote:

Originally posted by Meiscool quote: Originally posted by Midnight9795 quote: Originally posted by Djanki PS: Almeidaboo, I think I might be wrong, but--six years? And you're 22? Maybe a bit young for marriage...but six years is six years! At least move in with her and see what happens. Then again, what do I know? I disagree with the moving in part, statistics show that most marriages fail when you move in before you're married. But six years is a long time, but on a station I use to listen to this chick was dating her man for like fourteen years..XD! Heh. I dunno, because I haven't been in love yet, but if it were me I would dump her and go on to something new. Sounds to me like you don't plan on the realationship going anywhere, and that it's a (to put it bluntly) waste of time.

quote:

Heh. I dunno, because I haven't been in love yet

^yeah, pretty much.


Congrats Al.

En, I don't get it, are you agreeing with me or trying to prove a point saying that because I haven't felt love my opinion is in-valid?

[Desimodontidae]

The latter IS true...

[Kijuki_Magazaki]

Originally posted by Meiscool

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Originally posted by charaman quote: Originally posted by Meiscool quote: Originally posted by Midnight9795 quote: Originally posted by Djanki PS: Almeidaboo, I think I might be wrong, but--six years? And you're 22? Maybe a bit young for marriage...but six years is six years! At least move in with her and see what happens. Then again, what do I know? I disagree with the moving in part, statistics show that most marriages fail when you move in before you're married. But six years is a long time, but on a station I use to listen to this chick was dating her man for like fourteen years..XD! Heh. I dunno, because I haven't been in love yet, but if it were me I would dump her and go on to something new. Sounds to me like you don't plan on the realationship going anywhere, and that it's a (to put it bluntly) waste of time. quote: Heh. I dunno, because I haven't been in love yet ^yeah, pretty much. Congrats Al.

En, I don't get it, are you agreeing with me or trying to prove a point saying that because I haven't felt love my opinion is in-valid?

Yeah, pretty much.

Goodluck Al, and tell us when you ever propose

[Meiscool-2]

Indeed, I fathomed accuratly.

[Almeidaboo]

Rá, you guys would be the first ones to know hahaha...

I dunno...this story of mine is really weird. There´s been 6 years, but doesn´t seem that much at all. She´s a weird person: she´ll never fight for anything, she´s always happy. I´m a weird person: i´ll never fight also, and I´m mostly happy all the time too. So in this time we never ever had a discussion or whatsoever. I´m not saying we never had hard times, but they passed as quick as they came. We´re like two retards in love I guess

I dunno, I´m still a trainee that earns **** for working. She´s already graduated at Advertising and she works for Brazil's Central Bank...still in the beginning of her career, but she´ll do good for sure.

I don´t have a good situation to propose yet, and I don´t wanna give her a bad life or anything...I still have 2 years till I graduate, so until then I´m not even thinking about it.

EDIT: Ah yes, the rest of the plan: together with the CD I´ll do the following:

I sneak into her apartment (I made a pact with her brother XD) and then spread roses in her bed. With that I´ll make a flat wooden "figure" of me with a message written in the back (that´s easy cause my brother is in Design University and he has full acess to the tools) and some chocolate. That´ll be the check mate. I guess I´ll be waiting beneath her bed to surprise her (the message will have a reaction part [it´ll tell her to do somethin] and that´s when I come out!)

TOo much work...I get myself into the weirdest stuff. I has this idea just when I was drifting between awake and fully asleep.

[charaman]

You really can't have an opinion if you have no experience or even a point of reference.

[SonicChaos7]

It happens. Fell in love twice, got the boot twice. Although, the second one is my best friend. We care about each other a lot. That's enough for me. How did I deal? I didn't. I just let things slip. wore my emotions out to where caring didn't exist.

[drenrin2120]

I think a lot of young kids now a days say they've been in and out of love, but what they call is really nothing. You can't fall in love with someone in less than a week. That's just cracy. Love can wait for me, right now, I've got a lot of other things to deal with. But if it decides to come a knockin', I'll gladly let it in, and when it wants to leave, so be it. Life's too short to be depressed all the time.

[SonicChaos7]

Let people believe what they want to believe... if it helps them sleep at night.

[Djanki]

0_o....this 'love' thing is a mess....

...okay, let me make it easier...

*Hadokens Sailor Moon*

There we go!
I agree with Meiscool--don't bother with my Solar advice--I suck at matters of teh h3@rt.

Oh, and as for sex? I've got a fully loaded 9mm Solar Gun to anyone who suggests it. I'm in no rush to become a teen parent or get an STD. I use the head on my shoulders, thank you very much. I prefer emotions.

Dang it, I looked like the poster boy for some lame Public Service Announcement just now, didn't I?

[Drace]

Originally posted by Djanki
0_o....this 'love' thing is a mess....

...okay, let me make it easier...

*Hadokens Sailor Moon*

There we go!
I agree with Meiscool--don't bother with my Solar advice--I suck at matters of teh h3@rt.

Oh, and as for sex? I've got a fully loaded 9mm Solar Gun to anyone who suggests it. I'm in no rush to become a teen parent or get an STD. I use the head on my shoulders, thank you very much. I prefer emotions.

Dang it, I looked like the poster boy for some lame Public Service Announcement just now, didn't I?

Your head is on your shoulders? Wow! You freak. Mine is totally on the chest.

[Razor]

My head is on my neck, you silly people.

[Robotam]

Originally posted by drenrin2120
I think a lot of young kids now a days say they've been in and out of love, but what they call is really nothing. You can't fall in love with someone in less than a week. That's just cracy. Love can wait for me, right now, I've got a lot of other things to deal with. But if it decides to come a knockin', I'll gladly let it in, and when it wants to leave, so be it. Life's too short to be depressed all the time.

Yeah, listen to Sonic... Who are you to tell the younger guys that their love is not real? :p

I like your plan Almie, it's a 'can't fail' kind of plan.

[Almeidaboo]

Originally posted by Robotam

quote:

Originally posted by drenrin2120 I think a lot of young kids now a days say they've been in and out of love, but what they call is really nothing. You can't fall in love with someone in less than a week. That's just cracy. Love can wait for me, right now, I've got a lot of other things to deal with. But if it decides to come a knockin', I'll gladly let it in, and when it wants to leave, so be it. Life's too short to be depressed all the time.

Yeah, listen to Sonic... Who are you to tell the younger guys that their love is not real? :p

I like your plan Almie, it's a 'can't fail' kind of plan.

Yeah, I can´t mess it up...I neeed to make the "doll" already, cause I´ll have to paint it too...