A serious question

[Dragonium]

I'm gonna tell Mike what you said about him.

He's gonna molest you so bad.

[Bluhman]

You damn well know I will.

[Ben]

lololol!!111!!!oneone!!!!!1!

Thats the sound I make when i am being molested

[Prpl_Mage]

Oh yeah, thanks to Phayre I remembered one thing.

Although this might only work if you/she doesn't live too far from school and you got a big-arsed break before the lesson(and prefarably just after lunch or during lunch).

If it's really dissgusting food(she agrees) then say that you are really hungry, then complain about there not being anything you'd like to eat at home(like pizza that you've eaten the previous three days).
Then tell her what you could cook, but you just don't see a point to cook it to none but youself.
Like it's being a waste of time; so you rather put that pizza into the oven even though you're tired of it. Create a little dilemma.
Then if she gets the hint she'll probably tell you that she could come with you in that case.
Or  you could ask her if she has any ideas for food, and then ask her if she could do it since you suck at cooking if that's the case.

But don't do anything unexpected, just eat lunch and talk with each other. That will work for sure.

[Moosetroop11]

Pfft. Like that'd work.

"Oh woe is me. I have food at home which I could cook but what's the point? I have no-one to cook for. Oh whatever will I do. hint hint."

[Prpl_Mage]

It does if she really is intressed you know?
It's not like she wouldn't want to cook for you/ get lunch from you if she really did like you right?

All I got back here is deep frozen food, only 5 varaities x 3-4. And pan pizza... It's just dull now, It's not anything special anymore... I'd prefer cooked food but I'm far too lazy to just cook for myself, not worth the time it takes when I can just put that ice block into the microwave for 7 minutes.

But that might just be me.

But Ed is the one to judge, I donno how close they are, I'm just throwing suggestions.

[Ganocide_of_a_Kingdom]

If I read right, she likes anime and video games right? Well then, why not ask her to do one of the two together sometime? Or even the two.  Be careful though, I don't know if I would invite her to my place, she might get weird and think you are some kind of rapist who will lock her in a room and chain her up (even if you don't seem like a perv one at all). Just ask her if she would like to do one of the two after school, or sometime, don't say yer house or her house, if she says yes then let her ask you "where" if I were you I would let her decide that. If she says yer house, then it's a given she trusts you and does not think ill of you, if not, then it's still good that you two are going to get together, anyway. If you play games together where you two compete vs one another, if you are too good and she just does not stand a chance, be good and let her win a few times (don't make yerself look like a worthless gamer either) and say something like "Darn, I don't know why I'm losing, I'm usually pretty good at this" in a joke manner. Yeah, it's kind of cheesy but it can make her think.

This can certainly make you much closer to each other, and if you do it often would be great progress. Remember to be polite, chivalry it's pretty much extinct, but that makes it all the most special, much more if you really mean it. Don't over do it, treat her WELL , but do not over do it, remember that a lot of females like a challenge in a guy and not a lap dog.  

[X_marks_the_ed]

I apologize about kicking the thread, but things aren't going so well, it's not that she hates me, it's just she seems to be avoiding me because of my friend. (Yes, I have friends).

He is, frankly, a girl repellant. He tells stories about throwing his cat around, things he's found on the internet, and complaining about how America ruins animes everytime I bring the topic up.

I'd leave, but no other table has an open spot, and I only have one other friend besides him, and I don't get to see him often because of our school schedules. Besides that, she sits at our table.



But now for some positive news:
I sent her a "candy-cane gram" run by our school to deliver a candy cane with a note attached to a given recipient. The note was pretty nice if I say so myself, since she has a singing voice that only I seem to enjoy.  

 

A sweet for such a sweet voice.

But I was afraid to sign my name when I had it ordered. So....


...she knows she has a secret admirer by the name of "A man behind a mask."

She adores it, and I would gladly tell her it was me, if I wasn't afraid of her (and my friend) bursting into hysterics! >.<

I could wait until a day my friend is sick, but with my luck, she'd be out too.  

[/DILEMMA]

[Cosmos]

dude.. they're FRIENDS! They do shyte like that on for fun. The other day while I was at the movies with them, one of them told me to shut the hell up and go kiss my ex because we all know you want too. And it was so uncomfortable because he was sitting right next to me but we both pretended it didn't happen. You just gotta either sit him down and tell him to chill *although that might really let him know somethings going on if you haven't told him yet*or ignore him. That's about all you can do. And mabbe consider practicing in front of the mirror on how you want to ask her out. It might be easier to know what you wish to say beforehand.

[Vidian]

Liza Minelle says to pounce on her.

Or you could ask her out to something you both find interesting.
Like a move thats coming out that you both like.
And If she ask why you asked her, just says Its cause you have no friends.

(And Leave your A$shat friend at home)

If that doesnt work, Buy me a plane ticket, and I'll make it happen.

[Prpl_Mage]

Well, defend anime if he goes all "duh! anime sucks" 'cuz you can still have your own oppinion right? It's not like both of you will lose against him in an argument I hope. Just tell him to shut up in case he goes too far.
You an' she shouldn't have to be around a person who doesn't respect your thoughts and life to be honest.

So try not to see him during breaks, leave quickly and speak with her somewhere else. Take a walk. Just so she won't have to be near him.

And if it helps, tell her that he is a friggin' moron in case you notice her annoyance(maybe not in front of him though).

[ZeroKirbyX]

Wow. You need to tell her. And be honest. Because right now, you're in the friend zone. i.e. fucked.

[Tomi]

Do you have any school dance type things coming up?  Those are a great way to really show you care about her more than just as a friend.  Also, the movie thing is a good idea, thats how I started with my current girlfriend of almost 7 months.  

Also, most girls like guys who are creative.  I, for example, was scared shittless of asking my girlfriend out, so I made a mix cd for her, with just like 7 songs telling her how I really liked her (they were like good songs too)  She had asked me to burn her a Flogging Molly cd for her, so I hid the mix cd under the Flogging Molly one, put a note in there, and basically, next time we hung out, she asked me out because she knew I liked her.  Maybe it just works for me, I don't know...

If you don't go for it soon, you WILL be stuck in the friend zone, which will make things awkward.

[X_marks_the_ed]

Originally posted by Tomi
Do you have any school dance type things coming up?  Those are a great way to really show you care about her more than just as a friend.  Also, the movie thing is a good idea, thats how I started with my current girlfriend of almost 7 months.  

Also, most girls like guys who are creative.  I, for example, was scared shittless of asking my girlfriend out, so I made a mix cd for her, with just like 7 songs telling her how I really liked her (they were like good songs too)  She had asked me to burn her a Flogging Molly cd for her, so I hid the mix cd under the Flogging Molly one, put a note in there, and basically, next time we hung out, she asked me out because she knew I liked her.  Maybe it just works for me, I don't know...

If you don't go for it soon, you WILL be stuck in the friend zone, which will make things awkward.

Don't you tell me awkward. She was ecstatic to learn she had a secret admirer, but I think she already has a boyfriend. o.O

Who else can "pet" (run fingers down her hair) a girl besides their boyfriend.

Am I (Man behind a Mask) a spare?

[Prpl_Mage]

If that's the case then you should try to ask her. Not so she can suspect anything but send here something else from the masked admirer and if she brings up the topic then say something like "But didn't you already have a boyfriend or something?"

If the answer is no? Great succes!
If the answer is yes? Damn... Try to move on or wait for them to break up(alternative to this is that you keep spoiling her with secret gifts so she will try to find out who it is because that masked guy seems like a really swell person or that her boyfriend finds out about these secrets gifts and leave her/do something stupid so they break up).

Best I can do for now...