Breaking Up And Down

[Nandez]

Ok I have to ask no this is not a "Charas Is My Journal" post but I was wondering have you guys ever broke up with anyone like really broke up not like hey its over I mean have you ever broke up with anyone and gone through this entire hour long scene?
Like some of my relationships have gone on way longer than they should just because I couldn't do it from their crying and begging just couldn't follow through with it. Like dude you have to be cold hearted to get through that. How the hell do you get through that crap cause I'm sure out of everyone here one of you have at least once. I mean really.

[HackersTotalMassLaser]

I had cops on the scene once. But it wasn't cuz of the break up, rather what ensued afterwards.

[zuhane]

Are you going through it now, Nandez?

[Prpl_Mage]

Let's put it like this.
We are men. We are trained / raised not to let emotions get the hold of us.

If you don't want to break up with someone because you don't want to hurt them - you probably still have some feelings for them.
And if it is really over, why wouldn't you break up with them? Why pretend like everything is fine when you can just say it before a baby comes into the picture?

It's necessary evil unfortunately, but it's better than living in a lie right?

[SaiKar]

At one point I told a girl straight up and that she was driving me crazy and I wasn't having a good time with her and didn't want to talk to ever again. I had no idea what was going to happen there - I thought for sure it was gunna get ugly, but she just kind of nodded, turned around, got in her car, and drove out of my life forever.

It was probably the most stone-cold thing I'd ever done, and it disturbed me for a while that I had even done it. But it was true, and I was glad that it was over, so I think maybe it was for the best.

Gotta man up, dude. Life ain't easy. Don't let yourself be in a situation that's making you miserable just because of someone else whom you don't really like all that much. Save being miserable for the ones that are worth fighting for. 

[HackersTotalMassLaser]

Yeah, tell the girl to shut the hell up and leave you the hell alone or you're gonna take out you 12 gauge and blow her boobs to smithereens.

Ahh, if only I owned a 12 gauge. My life would be simpler.

[Nandez]

Yeah. No matter how sad the girl is when you break up, lying to her is the worst thing you could possibly do.

You know what's crazy during a whole long scene of one break up I told her I couldn't take her back and pretending everything was fine would be a lie and she said as long as we were together she didn't care if it was a lie. Crazy right? I mean damn that would eat away at me to know it was all a lie.

@HackersTotalMassLaser Ah the cops I remember them well after one certain relationship.


Edit: I need to proof read what I type.

[Prpl_Mage]

She just loved you for the sex, you were probably the best she ever had too. So think some happy thoughts mate.

[HackersTotalMassLaser]

Shallooow.

[Shady Ultima]

She just loved you for the sex, you were probably the best she ever had too. So think some happy thoughts mate.

I disagree. I know many girls who use that tactic. "I don't care if it's a lie, I just want to be together"

There are 2 reasons.
1. They're too much in love, and just want to be with the person, no matter what, even if the other is unhappy.
2. They intend to try to make you fall in love with them, thus making the relationship no longer a lie. It's a devious little mind trick, but it backfires.

[Ben]

seriously, I know it seems like the end all right now... but this is because you are young. Ive been through some harsh ones (coming out of the closet to my then-fiance for one)....and honestly, watching/hearing other people snivel about their relationships is one of the most assinine things a person can be subjected to.

Your hormones have the best of you. There is no such thing as 'love' only chemicals, complacency, and co-dependance. Perhaps Im bitter and jaded....and yeah, I dont care if you said "this is not a personal journal post" but dude....c'mon. Its a "hey tell me what you think of a hypothetical situation that OBVIOUSLY has something to do with my personal life until you ask me to tell you all about it"


Break ups are tough. But you know whats tougher? When your partner dies. Or gets something like Cancer...or say YOU get something like cancer...or say, you lose your house, you knock up some girl you dont even really like, you actually see a third world country and your problems look silly and small, or you just generally come to the realization that life is not fair and you need to pull your socks up and quit being a little girly bitch.And now somebody is bound to call me insensitive...but whatevs. Its an rpg maker forum. There are communities out there devoted to giving you e-hugs and telling you that you are a special snowflake and that 'love is tough" and spout some shitty mellowdramatic poetry. I could care less. I come here to make games You just got called a girly bitch by a confirmed homosexual. FYI



TL:DR     Man up, boy. Life sucks. Get a helmet

[HackersTotalMassLaser]

Cliche.

[Ben]

Which differs from the rest of this thread how?


Clichee but its true man....nobody gives a **** about your relationships when you grow up...because you have real problems to deal with

/rant

[HackersTotalMassLaser]

I am not sure if to wail or flail.

Well i don't really care about other people relationships besides my family and friend circle. But I am sure that's a human thing.

[Nandez]

WOAH WOAH WOOOOAAAH Lol @ gemini ok you guys seems to think I'm asking for advice here or I'm going through this when I'm not, especially you gemini.
I actually asked because  I was just curious how you guys dealt with these type of (everydayish) situations. I'm not going through that situation or dealing with that situation right now.
I wasn't asking advice or whining about my nonexistent problems I was just curious don't take thing so seriously gemini. This is the off topic section afterall.