Love and Relationships

[Razor]

Originally posted by Red Giant
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Let's shoot some dudes!

[Tomi]

Originally posted by Red Giant
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That, sir, is win.

[Cosmos]

Originally posted by Revolution911
I JUST DON'T WANNA READ MIDS BIG LONG SCARY POST

But you'll read kijuki's?! To hell with ye!  

[Revolution911]

Originally posted by Midnight

Originally posted by Revolution911
I JUST DON'T WANNA READ MIDS BIG LONG SCARY POST

But you'll read kijuki's?! To hell with ye!   [/B]

I made a response to yours

luv u baeb

[Cosmos]

umhmm *rolling of teh eyes* I still love you  

[SonicChaos7]

Here's my tragic tale:

I start looking for a job and after 5 weeks of going around looking for one, I catch a job at the theater nearby. I jump at the chance to take it because I just wanted a job and some cash. Well, I get hired and start the next day. Everyone I work with is friendly and everything. Well, after a few days of working there, I become interested in this girl that I worked with. It seemed like she was interested in me, too, the way she always got close to me and stuff. Just how she acted. Anyhow, one day we both closed together, which meant we had to clean stuff. We took a while and her mom called, asking what she what was taking her so long and she explained that she was training me and stuff. Well, after we finish cleaning up, we both leave and walk her out to her car. She later tells her mom about me and stuff, explaining everything again on why she was late. Also, that night we had talked about a lot of stuff, her current relationship that was "on the rocks" and just some slightly personal things about ourselves, getting to know each other and what not.

Well, from that day on, she starts flirting with me, and me being me, I flirt with her as well, though it was small, harmless stuff. Anyway, after a few days, she breaks up with her boyfriend. A little before they broke up, she and I had been text messaging each other a lot, just talking about things. So, they break up, leaving things open for me and her. Well, we start being more flirtatious at work, though we did keep it professional when needed. Of course, everyone there was tight, so everything that we did, people didn't like because we weren't her and her ex. So yeah, things progress, and it seemed like nothing was wrong at all. I liked her a lot and she seemed to like me a lot, too.

Eventually her ex-boyfriend started asking everyone that was working one morning about me and the girl. Most people just play it cool and say that we're just friends because they don't want him being all emo. Well, a couple of days later, she and I kissed. And it was something new to me, and it felt nice. Well, yeah, anyway, things seemed to be swimmingly good, but that was the turning point of this seemingly cute "love story." That night, she texted me, saying she wanted to see the Transformers movie and she wanted me to come along. I agreed to it. Then in the morning, she calls me and asks me not to come because her ex-bf is there. So, I ask to meet her after the movie for lunch. She calls me after the movie and says she can't because her mom wants her home. Well, after getting dressed, I wasn't just going to just sit at home, so I got up and went out for a while and asked her to meet me at the farside of the parking lot out side of the theater a few minutes before she started working the evening. She meets me and we talk for a little while, kiss, and she goes to work and I leave.

Later that night she calls me and sounds really nervous and told me what happened. I feel bad and hope that she's alright. About an hour later, I get a call from her brother, who's in the Army and just got back from Iraq. He tells me to back off his sister and minorly threatens me to not touch her or talk to her or anything. I agree to it and brush it off. He calls me back later, but this time he's very agitated. He's cussing me out like mad o nthe other end and threatening to kill me and throw me through a wall and all other kinds of threats. He says all these things because he saw all the texts messages and pictures we sent to each other (nothing graphic... if you get my meaning). He continuously threatens me and when I just keep quiet, he hangs up on me. His mother calls me back later and leaves message on my phone, apologizing for her son, but then threatens me herself. So, after considering the safest options, me and my parents all decided that it would be best to quit my job in order to keep me safe from those psychotic people. Well, it was the end of that, and the girl and I didn't contact each other after that incident. But upon my discovery yesterday, it became clear, after much assumption, that she had used me just to have a fling, something new and fun for a little while. And it also became clear that had set me up for that episode with her family. I looked through some photos on her boyfriend's and mother's myspaces and one picture has all of them in it, smiling, showing how happy they are. You'd think that after all of that if she was genuine about hw she felt, she wouldn't look as happy, but she was definitely happy. So, in the end, it comes down to me having been a tool of the girl in order to achieve her small goal to have a fun experience for a short while.

[Ben]

god im glad im not a teenager anymore.

 

[Shady Ultima]

Ah, I gotta agree with Gem here. Teenage girls can be ****ing stupid as hell... You just got to let it go and move on. Assuming you had fun with her, just think about it as an experience, move on, and don't worry about it. If she never cared about you, well, that's her own loss. I know how it feels to be used, to be rejected, you just got to move past it. I firmly believe that there is someone out there for everyone.

I'm finally lucky myself, because I've got a girl that actually makes me happy, and I really want to be with her. So, luckily for me, I don't have any problems lol. I actually came up with this thread because I was having a hard time choosing between Alicia (the girl I'm with) and Eve (the girl I was with when I met Alicia). In the end, I obviously chose Alicia, and so far, it's worked out well...

[Dominicy]

Originally posted by SonicChaos7
Here's my tragic tale:

I start looking for a job and after 5 weeks of going around looking for one, I catch a job at the theater nearby. I jump at the chance to take it because I just wanted a job and some cash. Well, I get hired and start the next day. Everyone I work with is friendly and everything. Well, after a few days of working there, I become interested in this girl that I worked with. It seemed like she was interested in me, too, the way she always got close to me and stuff. Just how she acted. Anyhow, one day we both closed together, which meant we had to clean stuff. We took a while and her mom called, asking what she what was taking her so long and she explained that she was training me and stuff. Well, after we finish cleaning up, we both leave and walk her out to her car. She later tells her mom about me and stuff, explaining everything again on why she was late. Also, that night we had talked about a lot of stuff, her current relationship that was "on the rocks" and just some slightly personal things about ourselves, getting to know each other and what not. Well, from that day on, she starts flirting with me, and me being me, I flirt with her as well, though it was small, harmless stuff. Anyway, after a few days, she breaks up with her boyfriend. A little before they broke up, she and I had been text messaging each other a lot, just talking about things. So, they break up, leaving things open for me and her. Well, we start being more flirtatious at work, though we did keep it professional when needed. Of course, everyone there was tight, so everything that we did, people didn't like because we weren't her and her ex. So yeah, things progress, and it seemed like nothing was wrong at all. I liked her a lot and she seemed to like me a lot, too. Eventually her ex-boyfriend started asking everyone that was working one morning about me and the girl. Most people just play it cool and say that we're just friends because they don't want him being all emo. Well, a couple of days later, she and I kissed. And it was something new to me, and it felt nice. Well, yeah, anyway, things seemed to be swimmingly good, but that was the turning point of this seemingly cute "love story." That night, she texted me, saying she wanted to see the Transformers movie and she wanted me to come along. I agreed to it. Then in the morning, she calls me and asks me not to come because her ex-bf is there. So, I ask to meet her after the movie for lunch. She calls me after the movie and says she can't because her mom wants her home. Well, after getting dressed, I wasn't just going to just sit at home, so I got up and went out for a while and asked her to meet me at the farside of the parking lot out side of the theater a few minutes before she started working the evening. She meets me and we talk for a little while, kiss, and she goes to work and I leave. Later that night she calls me and sounds really nervous and told me what happened. I feel bad and hope that she's alright. About an hour later, I get a call from her brother, who's in the Army and just got back from Iraq. He tells me to back off his sister and minorly threatens me to not touch her or talk to her or anything. I agree to it and brush it off. He calls me back later, but this time he's very agitated. He's cussing me out like mad o nthe other end and threatening to kill me and throw me through a wall and all other kinds of threats. He says all these things because he saw all the texts messages and pictures we sent to each other (nothing graphic... if you get my meaning). He continuously threatens me and when I just keep quiet, he hangs up on me. His mother calls me back later and leaves message on my phone, apologizing for her son, but then threatens me herself. So, after considering the safest options, me and my parents all decided that it would be best to quit my job in order to keep me safe from those psychotic people. Well, it was the end of that, and the girl and I didn't contact each other after that incident. But upon my discovery yesterday, it became clear, after much assumption, that she had used me just to have a fling, something new and fun for a little while. And it also became clear that had set me up for that episode with her family. I looked through some photos on her boyfriend's and mother's myspaces and one picture has all of them in it, smiling, showing how happy they are. You'd think that after all of that if she was genuine about hw she felt, she wouldn't look as happy, but she was definitely happy. So, in the end, it comes down to me having been a tool of the girl in order to achieve her small goal to have a fun experience for a short while.

Aw, I went through something like that, I feel stupid and embarassed about it but I trust you guys to respond maturely about it, but Awhile back, (year or so) I met a girl online, and we start to like eachother.  I come flat out and tell her, and she says she likes me back.  about three or four months later, I, after she asked me not to tell her friends about it, find out WHY.  It gets loose I like her, and all her friend flip because she apparently already has a boyfriend, so it turns out she was just using me to toy with me and have fun.  In the end, it comes down to she was a bitch.

It's not too close to what happened to unless you really look.  It hurts and you feel dumb (I'm assuming it applies for you too) but eventually you come to the realization that they weren't right for you and they were probably aren't right for anyone after being able to use someone like that.

Hope everything ends up alright for you.  Oh, and by the way, YES, it WAS A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP, and I learned my lesson with that case, ok? ok.

[Razor]

Hey Sonic, there's a new tool out to handle these sorts of things. It's called "the Enter button".

[Cosmos]

Sonic's not a teen...... <<..... he's 19...  And sonic stop being so damn angry about it. Things coulda been worse.. she coulda went so far as to have you buying her shyt, paying her bills, and telling you she loved you and THEN leave you. There are other girls babe.

[SonicChaos7]

Originally posted by Midnight
Sonic's not a teen...... <<..... he's 19...  And sonic stop being so damn angry about it. Things coulda been worse.. she coulda went so far as to have you buying her shyt, paying her bills, and telling you she loved you and THEN leave you. There are other girls babe.

I'm not as angry about it as I was a bit after it happened. But still, it's quite annoying to think that I allowed myself to get duped by dreck like her.

[Moosetroop11]

Originally posted by Midnight
Sonic's not a teen...... <<..... he's 19...

Absolutely. Nineteen doesn't end with 'teen'. I have no idea what Gemini's smoking.

[Tomi]

Dude, that sucks.. some girls are asshats about relationships, nothing you can do.

Originally posted by Razor
Hey Sonic, there's a new tool out to handle these sorts of things. It's called "the Enter button".

I agree.

[Applebit]

Originally posted by Shady Ultima
Well, I was lookin at another forum, and there's a quite popular thread called the Love and Relationships thread. It's there for people struggling with relationships.

And since I'm sure EVERYONE deals with these kinds of things, I figured I might bring it over here.

So basically, when you have a problem with friends, girls/boys, parents, or any other relationship really, you could talk about it in this thread, and hopefully, people will give you some advice.

So, please don't spam, and if you have any relationship problems, let 'em flow!

Hay I know where a great board for love and relationships is going on.
http://speakingoflove.freeforums.org/portal.php
Try it and you will get some good answers there.
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Applebit.